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writes:What can i do to get my new boyfriend who is only 23 to last more than 2 minuts? And how can i get him to do more foreplay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2013): Foreplay: Make it more interesting for him. If a man is not willing to do foreplay, it means he doesn't enjoy it. Remember that foreplay is about both of you.
Lasting more than 2 min: Find the reason. Is he new to sex? In that case, it's normal and he'll get better gradually. Practice makes perfect. He needs to learn how to cool down when he gets too close. You can help him by relaxing your vagina and not squeezing his penis in there when he tries to cool down.
Try to do it again a few minutes after he ejaculates. He will be less sensitive and will last longer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2013): this happens to people who have grown up with masturbating at a phase & comfort level of their own. It is very difficult for them during the initial phase of an actual relationship to last long. It won't be that way for long or atleast until he get comfortable with the new situation. There's no remedy. just put up with it for a while.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2013): It's quite easy. Keep your panties on. Minimize the alcohol!Make him have to work for it. Take his hands and put them where you want them.Allow him to kiss you without full body contact. Don't make out too heavily, he's a bit too eager. He may get there before he even takes his shorts off. Limit dry humping; some guys get off that way.He might have premature ejaculation if you hold out too long. You're probably a very attractive woman, and sometimes that is such a turn on; when a guy figured he'd never have a snowball's chance.You can be the aggressor. Lay him out on the bed, the couch, or on the floor; and be the dominatrix. Make him kiss every spot on your body, and tell him how you like it.It will register in his brain. Coo and purr so he knows when he's doing things right.You give all the orders, and you slow things down a bit. Ask him to tease you to please you. Show him where you want his mouth, then his hands. Make him have to touch every tender loving spot on your body before he gets the prize.Make him use his tongue and fingers.Don't let him touch himself. That's really important. If he's stroking himself too much during the process, he'll push himself to orgasm too quickly.Make him have to chase you. Push him away when his thrusts become too pronounced. He is being a little selfish, and he doesn't want to work for the honey.Angle your body and tilt your pelvis not to allow full penetration. Keep him at the entrance; but don't let him in.Be sweet and sensitive. Don't create performance anxiety by being too critical. If he doesn't slow down and he can't keep up the foreplay, daddy don't get the candy.Don't let him cum until he gets you close first. Just use your imagination and make a game of it. He will catch on and then he'll expect it each and every time. He sounds like an inexperienced nerd. You're his dream girl.He is overcome with anticipation and a very horny guy. We guys are usually all heated up long before the act.You can start things off with a shower, sitting around with no clothes on, and a little bit of teasing, but make him concentrate more on your g-spot, neck, and tingly areas.If he doesn't have to work for it; "it's wham bam thank you mam!" Good luck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2013): To help him train for control and keep him from lasting such a short time:1. Have him masturbate to orgasm before you get together. Or you can help him get off immediately and then give him about 20 minutes to recuperate. 2. Once he has ejaculated, he will no longer be on the edge when you get intimate together. Having released his hair trigger, he will be less likely to lose it so quickly. 3. Teach him how important it is for him to make YOU feel good and to make YOU feel how he felt in such short a time. Explain to him that, because his trigger is OUTSIDE his body, your trigger being a smaller part of your body will need more stimulation to achieve similar results for you.
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