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anonymous
writes:Basically I asked a girl to go bowling with me a while back and she said yes, but she has been busy with exams so time has gone by but now she's free to do it. Anyway my problem is that I'm unsure that she thinks it's a date even though she seems to like me but can never be sure. So I've tried to speak to her alone about it because I want to make it clear to her but not been given the chance, but I know that I'll see her at work in 4 days time but I'm worried if I let time go by then she'll find another guy or forget about me. I certainly don't want to text her about it or message on Facebook. My question is shall I wait until I see her in person in 4 days time or shall I call her up before then and talk about it? My dating experience isn't much so any advice would be much appreciated from both the male and female perspectives.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice, I've known this girl and worked with her for over half a year and in that time have got along and got to know her very well and already know what I like about her.
I've hung out with her after work although not just the two of us so going bowling would give us the chance to meet up alone for the first time and spend time with her properly, if we hang out as just friends then there's usually others around which isn't what I want for now.
Yeah that's what I want to do make my intentions clear, I also don't want to let this chance pass so that's why I'm going to call her up, the nerves will be unbelievable but worth it to get this off my chest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2013): If it was me, I'd be too nervous to call and would wait.
...But as I girl, I'd be pleased a guy called me rather than just waited until work. That will definitely make your intentions clear.
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