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I'm wondering what's up with this guy? I do have feelings for him, but haven't told him yet.

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Question - (8 June 2013) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 June 2013)
A female New Zealand age , anonymous writes:

A guy I work with loves to stare at me all the time.

He watches who I'm talking to, especially his close friends.

When he is not around me then his friends chat to me.

Once he's back on the scene one shuts his mouth and the other looks to see if the guy is watching.

I'm wondering what's up with this guy? i do have feelings for him, but haven't told him yet.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2013):

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Thanks for your replies,I will certainly talk to him n tell him how i really feel...will keep you posted with the outcome cheers n god bless.

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A female reader, franny1297 United Kingdom +, writes (8 June 2013):

franny1297 agony auntHe's probably observing you, he knows you have a crush on him so he's watching what you do. Just take it easy, you might be a little obvious without realising. When you have a crush on someone you think the small signs that special someone gives you is something big and it has 'got' to mean something. Best of luck xxx

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A female reader, Brokenv Canada +, writes (8 June 2013):

Go and get a coffee....when going by his office/desk ask if you can get him one. Start doing these little things to strike up a conversation.

It all starts with a "hello". That could be the sweetest hello is has ever gotten!

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A female reader, Atsweet1 United States +, writes (8 June 2013):

Atsweet1 agony aunt He likes you and watches you. To find out if your flirty or social maybe to see who is drawn to you. He wants to see the real you interacting maybe he thinks you like the other guys too. If he is staring often everytime your in his presence he wants you thats all. He is also gathering up info and learning you to see if its mutual attraction on your end as well. You two should talk more and let nature take its course. Thats also a bonus that when your around all his attention is on you that to me means you have the shock effect. Thats when a women walks in group or comes around she demands attention and focus its not a bad thing believe me. Talk with him find out what you want to know he will tell you. When you talk and chat he will express his self also so dont be shock when he does.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2013):

Only one way to find out, OP. Maybe he's an obsessive stalker and takes pictures up your skirt and has held a knife to throats of his friends warning them not to talk to you. Maybe he keeps a pistol in his desk and as planning an office rampage and as his first victim he is studying your habits with an aim to dispatching you quickly and efficiently.

Do you see what I'm getting at? Impossible to say.

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