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writes: So long story short my ex boyfriend broke up with me . He left me for some other girl but he keeps co,ing to my job first with his new girlfriend and then he's dating another girl who works at my job from another department. Idk why he keeps coming I feel harnessed in away because he broke my heart I don't understand why he continues to hurt me. I left him alone I have not called him text him anything since the break up I don't want to him anymore I don't wanna see him anymore I just want him to go away. And he needs to stop coming in my job I work in make up and now he eats lunch with my worker!!!! What do I do Iit just hurts and my coworker made sure I knew she was dating my ex it hurts but I smiled like I didn't know who he was and that I found a new guy. So I'm sure she told him but i now do you think he'll go away. Or do you guys thing he know he made a mistake by letting me go? I would never go back to him he btw
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (4 June 2013):
 Remember; The opposite of LOVE is not "hate".... it's "indifference"......
As long as you are spending/wasting your time and mental energy on this guy (and it's probably obvious, to him), then he knows he "has you".... (thinking about him)... and THAT feeds his "guy-ego."
The best you can do is take the "high road"... whereupon you simply IGNORE him and his goings-on.... and let life happen.... It won't be easy..... since you seem to harbor feelings for him.... BUT, six months from now, you'll be saying... "Phew, I sure am glad to be rid of that A$$hole..." AND, you'll be getting on with your life, on your OWN terms...
Good luck...
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reader, ailee  +, writes (4 June 2013):
oh he KNOWS hes made a mistake letting a beautiful lovely girl like you go ... hes probably one of the three reason why hes ALWAYS there at your job is either hes an utter and complete ASS or a playboy making his way from woman to woman who coincidentally goes to the same work place as you (ID RATHER DOUBT IT)or he genually likes this so called co workeror hes trying to rub it in your face trying to make you jelous ... that hes doing well and is he is an uttter ass and thinks your going to come running back ( seriously doubt that) .. but seriously if he wasnt meant to be he will become a part of the past then into memories and eventuaky forgotten xxxxx wish you all the best of luck xx just ignore the ass for now hell get the message show him your even btter with out him x need anything im always here for you
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reader, Serpico +, writes (4 June 2013):
You two are broken up. As long as he isnt directly harassing you he can do whatever he wants. Move on.
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