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writes:my boyfriend keeps staying out all night and its really upsetting me. I told him he needed to let me in after work as I didn't have a key and left me waiting on the doorstep and never showed up. I rang and text with no luck. This morning he text saying sorry, I had to stay with my mother as I couldn't get in and all he said was I'm sorry. He then said give me another chance I love you but I replied asking where he was and he ignored me for hours. I rang and he sounded like he was in a pub and now doesn't care if we split up. Why are men so heartless. I'm getting upset and he cares less and less although he used to want to spend time with me and say how much fun we had to this. Am I right to be upset what would you do to handle this situation I feel out of control of anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2013): He stops out all night and does not answer his phone even when you were locked out. He has another woman or a drink/drug problem. Keep a close eye on him don't be his fool.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2013): Him say sorry and wanting another chance after spending a night out and not contactable doesnt sound good to me. He has either a drink problem, a communication problem or another woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2013): its our house that we share, i left my key in the house by mistake, when you go out you dont have to lock it, its one that locks when you shut the door and as soon as i'd shut it I realised id left it inside doh! yep it is bizarre what's going on and in the past month he's doing it all the time. He never did this before. I'm confused as to why its happening now and really sad because we were so good together before. Never mind I know if he keeps doing it I should just walk away. I know not all men are heartless it just feels that way sometimes :(
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reader, oldbag +, writes (1 June 2013):
 Hi
If you don't live there nor have a key for his place then he is in effect saying he doesn't want you turning up and stopping over.
If you live there and forgot your key then he should have explained he wouldn't be back till late, left his for you hidden or dropped one into your work on his way out.
If he stops out all night frequently, doesn't even care if you split up, then do just that, finish it, walk away. He really is not worth your time.
Not all men *are* heartless some are kind respectful and behave like adults.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (1 June 2013):
 What the heck kind of a "relationship" are you IN?????
You "live" somewhere..... but don't have a key to the door for entry?????? HUH??????
Please elaborate...... and give us the details..... so that we can tell you - definitively - that WHATEVER is going on between you and your "boyfriend" is bizarre.... and NOT HEALTHY.... and is something that you ought to distance yourself from........
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