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anonymous
writes:Hi I'm not too sure if this is a problem or not.Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years. We had a 2 month break at one stage.To the point, my girlfriend is the only girl that turns me on... It's strange,, I look at a pretty girl on the street and I find them attractive but not the same to give me an erection. I get nothing if I watch porn.. And during that 2 month break I had a few opportunities with other girls but didnt do it because I wasn't " in the mood " Is this normal for a guy.. When I see her we still have sex ALOT, even after 3 years .. I only masturbate to her. I'm worried because if we break up which is a possibility it will stay like this. I'm constantly turned on by her alone.Ummm do I need help?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 July 2013):
 NO help needed.
If a year after you and your gf break up you write that your EX gf is STILL the only one/thing that turns you on, then we can worry but for now
it's a good thing.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (9 July 2013):
 It's feelings like what you have that made a group called the Flamingos to record the hit song "I Only Have Eyes For You".
You love her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2013): No, this is what most women want and how it should be! I have ended it with most of my boyfriends over them not being like this.
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reader, theres_always_a_loophole +, writes (9 July 2013):
 Hell no, you don't need help! Who cares if it's not "normal"? Sure some other men might tell you you're "weird", but deep down they are probably jealous! I also think a lot of women would be happier if there were more men out there like you. If you don't believe me, just look in the "porn" category or search for the word "insecure" on this website alone! Hundreds of women feeling depressed because of their partners' constantly looking at other naked women to get off on, or fantasizing about her sister, best friend etc. Some men even going as far as to choose to masturbate to porn over having sex with their women!
Your girlfriend has won the lottery, as far as I'm concerned. I just hope she knows it!
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