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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Was my reaction to his bad judgement over the top?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey there! My boyfriend and 8 others grew moustaches to raise money for charity last month. When he first mentioned this he talked about what style he might have. He said he may grow a hitler style. I come from a background where i grew up in a jewish community and i expl... (315 words)

Why does it bother me that he's gone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Some women are seen as strong independent women. I know that some of the people I know would say that about me but the truth is I'm not that tough underneath this facade. I can speak in public talk to strangers dance in front of hundreds of people on my own, yet if you toy w... (287 words)

People tell me she's fake because she had a nose job

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've started dating this girl who is so beautiful, funny and one of the sweetest girls i've met she's so down to earth and adorably innocent but daring if you understand that. She told me the other day on our second date she's had a nose job, now I also knew from our fi... (370 words)

What about AFTER an affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you think men feel after having a long term affair on their partner? Do the feel regret? Do they even care? What if their current relationship was on the rocks and they were together "for the kids".... would there be less guilt? ... (48 words)

I want to talk things through and she never does

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a partner that is completely conflict avoidant. She would rather have painful dental surgery I believe, than listen to me address a problem or feeling I have. I realize this is quite backwards for most couples, as the man is usually the one like this and the woman wa... (748 words)

I am struggling to accept it for myself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm trying to come to terms with the fact that I am bisexual, and I'm really struggling. I've always been a big LGBTQ rights activist, done fundraisers and been to gay pride. My parents wouldn't have a problem with me being bisexual, which is not the problem, but I am still ... (215 words)

Should I help out my estranged step-son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, I need really fast advice. I have a step son 24 years ago. When he was a little boy like 2 years old I'm taking care of him. I was pregnant that time and I'm always angry to this boy. Partly my pregnancy and also maybe I'm jealous at him. Cos I see the face of ... (285 words)

Why is boyfriend so upset? I love him so much!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend was very quiet, he didn't talk much over the weekend. That's very unlike him cause he's usually very chatty and makes me laugh so much to point where I'm always peeing hehe. I asked him why he'd been quiet he said he's not happy maybe he's just bored... (180 words)

My husband and I are more like friends than a married couple. Why does this bother other people?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - How to deal with society ? The story is that my husband and I became more friends than a married couple. Sex is long not in a picture, which doesn't seem to bother any of us. It's not like it's gone forever, sometimes we do it when get tipsy or when we travel, but on a regula... (684 words)

Shall I push for more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey! So, me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now. Since I was 15 and he was 16. I love him with all my heart and yes we do have problems but who doesn't? He has stuck with me through the worst times in my life. I just don't know what is next? Do we just enjoy... (126 words)

Can you forgive a cheating husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all, im devastated , found my husband of 6 years cheating, he had changed for a while and i suspected something. I took his mobile while asleep and found love msgs.. I was soo shocked, im young and we hav two adorable girls... He then started begging , crying for me to come ... (100 words)

He's got a girlfriend is friendly when we are out but then barely says hello next day. What's up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I started a new university course a few weeks ago, and during the first week we all went for a night out. i started talking to a guy (also from the course) and we got along well and spent the whole night out together, most of it just the 2 of us. When everyone was leaving the ... (232 words)

Why is he still friends with his ex if she cheated on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months or so now, and I really love and care for him. His family and I get along really well, and I care for them a lot too. We never really have problems or fight, he's really nice and respectful, and we seem to be a great match for each ... (326 words)

What is wrong with me? Why am I getting all the wrong kind of attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there. Ok,so I don't really know where to begin, so bare with me! Since starting university I started to really come out of my shell, I found my style (the pin-up/vintage look) and I felt great! The best I've ever felt,I've never felt particularly confident in my ... (355 words)

Is my ex worth the second chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex about 5 months ago. He had a temper and we found ourselves in regular arguments, every week or 2 weeks. It was never physical, but he said some pretty hurtful comments. I was done with crying all the time and ended it. The break up was rough, he took i... (257 words)

Do I leave him alone for good? Have I done too much damage? And is there a way to win him back over? I

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating this man back in August. Things were going really well. He seemed to genuinely care for me. We spent a lot of time together at first. Going out to eat, doing fun things, and he even took me away for a long weekend. Well needless to say I fell head over heels ... (372 words)

Is he just playing it cool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3887 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys! I'm confused so would love to know your take on the situation! I am currently doing a university course that involves volunteering for two weeks, 4 times a year at different charity's. At my most recent charity placement, me and one of the employees seemed to o... (632 words)

I think I'm in love with her -- should I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

2 December 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a big problem. There is a girl in my class and I have been liking her for 3 years. I think I love her, and although people adviced me to forget her and get over her, I have not been able to do so. I have been thinking about asking her out, because she asked me out a l... (136 words)

Going to the local café feels awkward now because I like one of the waiters!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a client at one of the towns famous cafes, and whenever I have time I go there with a friend for a coffee whenever I happen to be in that part of town, I know the owner, in fact I am good friends with him. Recently, one of the waiters chatted me up and I quite like him... (274 words)

We practically live together already. How do I make things official with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Aunts and Uncles HELP!!!!! Basically there is this woman that I met a year ago. She started working where I work and I was instantly attracted to her. She is very beautiful and sexy but also has a great personality. I did ask her out at the beginning, but she told m... (630 words)

He's leaving in two months and I'll never see him again! When should I tell him I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I've decided to finally let a guy know that I like him. Trouble is, when? Because he's leaving to go study far (600 miles away). In exactly 2 months, then I'll never, ever see him again. I've liked him for over a year now and I was too scared to tell him before. When sho... (142 words)

I'm 70 years old struggling with erectile dysfunction and I feel terrible that I cannot satisfy my girlfriend sexually

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 December 2013 (M)

age - Hello. I am 70 years old and active,however I have recently developed the old man's problem Erectile Dysfunction. I have been living with an East European lady whom I adore very much,for over a year now. Anyway with my problem,proper sex is not possible. I very much w... (194 words)

I'm 8 months pregnant and my boyfriend has asked for a break in our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of nearly two years has asked for a break in our relationship and I dont don't know or understand why. He said he loves me not to see other people just have a break and we aint over just to give him that. Im so upset at 8months pregnant its not something I need ... (173 words)

Would a guy think it's weird that I have no relationship experience?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, my question is would a guy think it's weird that I have no experience? To clarify I am talking to a guy and I really like him and he has asked about my previous relationships but I have never been in a relationship before so I just say that I don't want to talk about ... (104 words)

I'm nasty when I'm drunk and my boyfriend hates it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! I've got a really, really serious problem and I wish someone could help me because I really don't know what to do. I'm 19 years old and the guy I'm dating is 27 (quite a big difference with ages but that doesn't bother us). We have been dating for half an year and see ... (478 words)

Why do many people find atheism offensive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do many people find atheism offensive? When I'm asked about my religion, I say that I'm not religious. When I'm asked further, I simply state that I'm atheist. If the asker is religious then they seem put off. Yet they asked. It's not something I say on my own. Why do many ... (130 words)

Afraid he's lost interest! Should I stop seeing him before I get hurt?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunties and uncles: I have been going on dates with a guy 4-5 times. He has been a gentleman. I am traditional and not okay with physical intimacy but since the first time we hang out, he always pecks me on cheek to say goodbye. However, as I am getting more comfortable... (307 words)

Made out with a coworker and he told people about it. Do I forgive him, avoid him, or resign?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (?) age 30-35 - I don't know if I should forgive this guy named J. We sort of both liked each other, nothing official came from it and he ended up telling people we made out. That's not a lie but he promised he wouldn't kiss and tell considering we both volunteer at the same place. So o... (389 words)

My boyfriend lied about meeting his ex and now I don't trust him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - How can I sort my own trust issues out? I need help before it ruins my relationship. Sorry this is very long! Bit of background: I have had 3 serious relationships. All 3 of my ex partners have cheated on me in varying degrees - one had a couple of one night stands, one ... (593 words)

Husband and I agreed to break off our affairs but now his mistress is pregnant!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 41 and I have been married for 6 1/2 yrs..been with my husband for 11yrs total. We have no children together..both our children are all adults. I found he was cheating on me in April so I confronted him. He lied to me that he wouldn't do it again...well he did...I kicked ... (248 words)

I found a lipstick in my partner's car and my gut feeling is telling me there's more to this. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to make of this situation so hoping someone can give me some advice. My partner and I have been together for 3 years. We've had a great relationship and friendship. This morning I found a lipstick in his car. I have no reason to distrust him but somet... (325 words)