New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in December, 2013, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (27), 2 (31), 3 (21), 4 (26), 5 (23), 6 (23), 7 (21), 8 (26), 9 (25), 10 (23),
11 (18), 12 (24), 13 (16), 14 (19), 15 (19), 16 (22), 17 (21), 18 (12), 19 (14), 20 (14),
21 (19), 22 (23), 23 (22), 24 (18), 25 (14), 26 (22), 27 (21), 28 (26), 29 (20), 30 (37),
31 (18),

Archived questions from: 1 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

(More questions from December, 2013)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't want to start a relationship with her, only to find she's crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I've met a girl and we get on really well. I want to ask her out, but there is a problem: Some people I know, who also know her, have told me she is a little crazy. Apparently she caused a whole load of problems with her ex boyfriend, and some people have even told me the ... (219 words)

Why isn't she my girlfriend even after seven months of dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this girl for about 7 months, and within the first month of dating, I asked her to be my girlfriend, but she said she wanted to take it slow. This is because she has gone through some rough things in her past, so I understood. We continued dating and now it ... (345 words)

I'm 29. How can I have a grandfather in my life if my own have died? Am I asking too much? Or is there another way to fill this void?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, This is a question about a family relationship. I'm new to this site but I don't imagine it's ever been asked before. I know it sounds kinda crazy, but I need advice about this desire of mine. Is there any way to make my wish come true, or could it ever be fulfi... (704 words)

Do recurring dreams about a crush mean anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I had a dream about my crush. I saw him at the bus loading area at our school. We made eye contact then him and his friend approached me and my friend and he told us hi and gave me a hug but with one arm so not a full hug, I guess a side hug? and that's the end of the dream . ... (173 words)

Is this what they call a FWB?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having this ongoing thing with this woman where we have sex, dinner, movies, coffee and I got medicine for her when she had the flu. We are both women and single. She says we are dating but also said she isn't keen on a relationship. I know she talks to other people ... (240 words)

I wanted to be his girlfriend, not his mother

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello and thank you for any responses in advance, I appreciate all honest opinions. 6 years ago I met a man in the Caribbean, he fell on love with me but I didn't feel the same way, however we became great friends. This year I fell in love with him and we finally got toget... (529 words)

Could it be over before it began?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I met today with the guy I asked the question about sending the Happy Thanksgiving text. I really liked him, but it seem like he didn't like me. I am very shy and I wasn’t able to maintain the conversation interesting. So, my bad! I know I screw it big time, and I know there is ... (242 words)

Should I be concerned that a vision of a family member intruded into my mind while I masturbated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This is probably a strange one but I have a problem that is really bugging me. I was masturbating the other day when I had an image of a family member just pop into my head. I have had random images just pop into my head before but it has got to me and this time I can't foc... (154 words)

What the hell just happened in my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My (now ex) broke up with me a couple days ago. She had said something hurtful to me and then all hell broke loose. FYI, I am a lesbian. I had applied to two programs of completely different nature for the spring. My first choice I didn't get into, and my second choice I ... (967 words)

Should I stop talking to my friend that I have feelings for?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've started a friendship with this girl whom I've became very close with, we've known each other for about 6 months. So long story short, she started hitting on me and I'm very bad at taking hints that I didn't take the opportunity. I believe after she realized that I didn't ... (327 words)

I'm her everything and sometimes it just feels like too much

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4038 days ago

1 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi to everyone :) First off, let me clear up on that title. She's my first girlfriend, and we have been going steady for 3 years now. I really really do love her, and I care hence i'm asking here. This is our story (I'll make it as short as I can, please b... (902 words)

I am in love with a Western woman but I'm in doubt about introducing her to my family. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

1 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I met an American girl when I was visit Dubai like 8 months ago. We spent 15 days together and after I came back we started doing things on net and said " I love you" to each other. I'm 28 and she is 24. My problem is that she keeps asking me to introduce her into my family. ... (140 words)

How can I prove I'm not messing around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

1 December 2013 (M) age 51-59 - I have met up with this girl. We were getting on fine for a month, then I stayed there one night, and the next morning. She asked me to leave, she said she was unwell. I left and rang her in a hour, she told me that I was cheating on her, while I was cheating she read all my t... (100 words)

Am I a normal girl? I have no male friends and I am lonely and heartbroken.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4038 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I am a very different girl, a middle class girl, I am very family oriented. I cannot hang out more like my other friends do, I have to be responsible towards my family I just cannot ignore them I am studious I just didn't go to college to just do time pass I ... (200 words)

I feel my boyfriend must change certain things. We've talked. What else can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 (soon 20 in a month). I am in serious relationship with my bf for 2 yrs we were happy couple with ups and down in life, after graduation we wanna settle down, now the problem is his nature. He is caring when it comes to my health, looks and my security but ............ (195 words)

I like a guy, but his friend seems more interested in me than he does! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3884 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So I was shopping with my friend the other day and I saw a guy I used to be quite close to and actually quite liked at one point. We haven't talked much for about six month but since I saw him then we've been texting loads. Problem a) Does he like me? He says he's not sure wh... (165 words)

I hate my BF being around a girl he had a one night stand with; she's now dating his best friend. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4038 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm driving myself mad with this, someone help! My boyfriend only had 2 sexual partners before me, his first relationship; the girl he lost his virginity to, and a one night stand which he had when he found out his ex partner had a new boyfriend. The problem I have is this g... (217 words)

Why Do Men Disappear for No Reason?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out with this guys a couple of times last week. We seemed perfect for each other, had many similar qualities and understood each other. He always told me how cute I was and that I even made him nervous because I was so amazing. When we kissed, it was so sensual, I've ... (190 words)

Is my best friend flirting with me? She's married!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age - I'm getting mixed signals from my very best friend. We work together and they live on site in an apartment. I'm not sure if she is flirting with me or if I am reading too much into it. She is married and in her late 50's, I'm a female as well and in my early 50's. We have bee... (296 words)

What's wrong with having meaningless sex with someone you never want to see again?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - What's wrong with having meaningless sex with someone you never want to see again. I'm a sexual person who loves being touched by men. Is it bad to have sex with them if you use protection? Why is there such a stigma to meaningless sex? Yes, its just sex, 2 bodies touching ... (80 words)

I feel sad that my friends only want to see me when I make the effort.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - It's my birthday coming up, I arranged a party and invited all my friends. More than half simply ignored the invitation. Most of the others, those I consider really close friends, one by one are pulling out. They said initially they would 'try' and make it, but now one by one ... (392 words)

Foster mother made rude comments to my wife about me, and I'm concerned about my foster brother. Should I say something?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My foster mother, who I lived with for 6 years, tried to badmouth me to my new wife while I ran an errand with my little foster brother(he still lives with her). I am dumbfounded. See, I was a good kid, as in the only things she can say about me was that she one time found a ... (542 words)

How do Atheist men date when most women are Christians or believers?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Many women are believers or Christians etc. I'm not saying you can't date at all, that's absurd, all I'm trying to convey is that your dating pool is rather limited. Like at my college, most women seem to be believers. I know this because in my lecture hall my professor ask... (103 words)

Should I still visit my boyfriend every weekend when he's busier than I am?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for a few months. He is currently studying for his LSAT everyday, while I am busy with just school. I sleep over his place every weekend; I come late at night, and then leave the next afternoon. Although, I am completely content with seeing him ... (256 words)

Boyfriend had a secret porn blog and we barely have sex anymore. Should I leave him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. We've been fighting a lot lately. I found out he had a porn blog on tumblr and i got upset I made him chose me or delete it. He deleted it but he's been such an ass. Hes had an attitude with me saying that that's w... (138 words)

My stepson says he is in love with me and won't take no for an answer!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I hope someone can help me I'm 29 and I'm married to my 45 husband for 10yrs with 2 beautiful step kids I love very much. Things haven't been good with my husband and I for years a month after we got married he started to abuse me in every way possible but like a young idio... (194 words)

Men: how often do you think about having sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Men of all ages - roughly how often do you think about having sex? And who with? Your partner/girlfriend/wife, that random hot person who walked past you on the street? Do you ever feel guilty if you think about having sex with someone who isn't your significant othe... (66 words)