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Archived questions from: 29 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Was I just used for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya i have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now he was in a very unhappy relationship when we met he broke up with her but is still living with her as they have twin boys who are a year old we recently slept together for the first time we had been waiting as i wanted to see ... (146 words)

Help with hand jobs

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year. He has fingered me various times now and I want to give him something back. I know he's okay with me touching him because we have spoken about it recently. I'm quite shy so I'm not that great at telling him what ... (119 words)

His remarks made me feel uncomfortable. How do I tell him I don't want to see him again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is my situation. I met a guy a while ago, and I found out from a mutual friend that he is extremely into me. I was really not especially attracted to him from the beginning, but since physical attraction is not always instant, I decided to give him the benefit of the ... (412 words)

My girlfriend's previous lovers made her come but I can't seem to

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Aunts! I am a 20 year old male who has been with my girlfriend for over a year now. She is the only woman I have ever been intimate with. My problem is that I cannot make her orgasm except by rubbing her clit and she is getting very frustrated with that. She s... (430 words)

Why is it more acceptable for women to use sex toys than it is for men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - just a tought. why is it totally acceptable for girls the use of vibrators / stimulators and when it comes to males, the use of them makes you be seen as a perv, weirdo, looser... etc, etc... im in a ldr and we see each other every 3 months. My gf told me once she sometimes ... (121 words)

I work with my ex-boyfriend's new fiancée and hearing about their perfect life together is painful for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my teenage sweetheart were together for 5 years when he broke up with me by text. Although we have been apart 2 years i really miss him. To make matters worse i work with his new girlfriend on a daily basis and he has just asked her to marry him. Although i am really h... (129 words)

I really like her but we come from two very different cultures. Is this worth pursuing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure about pursuing a relationship with this girl. Hi. I'm from Pakistan and currently studying at a University in London. There I befriended a Tunisian girl. I became attracted to her because of her character. At first I was just merely being her friend but then ... (385 words)

She already has a boyfriend and I'm the first woman she's been with. Am I making her life too complicated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I live in johannesburg now in village eastern cape visit my grandmother only my cousins knows that I am swing girls. I meet other cute aNd smart girl she's cute enough and the type of girls I likes she offer to be my friend and close friend but was not what I expect to her I am ... (219 words)

My girlfriend's mother seemed to like me but has suddenly changed her mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I have a dilemma that I need a little help with. I have been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for just over 7 months and we are both 20. I have stayed at her moms house (she still lives with her mom)a few times before which wasn't an issue bu... (227 words)

Found out my boyfriend was using me to cheat on his long-term partner and now my self-confidence is suffering!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - this sounds really pathetic but about 2months i found out the guy who was my boyfriend was actually cheating on his long term girlfriend with me and since then i have lost a lot of confidence. i contastly bodycheck all my fat (im 5'7'' and 140lbs- so am obviously chunky) ... (184 words)

I'm in a place where I feel I should stay single forever, is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi this isn't a problem as such but something that is bothering me. I am currently single and have been for just over two years, iv dated quite a bit over that time, I have no problem getting a date or a man (sounds big headed I don't mean it too!) But im in a place in my head ... (158 words)

I'm feeling insecure because my boyfriend used to date a stripper

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) age 36-40 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a couple months already. He's great, he's very loving and I really trust him. He's very open about his past, though. That's great, because he's honest and it builds trust, and usually it doesn't bother me. But today just out of the blue he m... (296 words)

I have been chatting with a possible scammer online

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I have been chatting with this guy online and on my email and we haven't met each other yet. He was telling me that he would be away in Africa for the holidays and won't be back until Jan5th. He said he is anxious to meet me and I am having some doubts about who he really is. ... (852 words)

I have longterm feelings for a friend, who also used to be my teacher.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

29 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, here it goes. It's a bit lengthy, so I apologize in advance. When I was younger I had a really hard time making friends my own age because I was so serious (maybe some would say mature). I just had to grow up quickly for personal reasons. Anyway... I had a teacher ... (1019 words)

My boyfriend's boss pulled me on his lap. Was he flirting with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was at my boyfriend's Christmas party recently and his boss, who is married, grabbed my hips and pulled me onto his lap while my boyfriend and I were standing beside the table he was sitting at (we were saying our goodbyes to everyone at the table). I sat there on his lap ... (138 words)

I would like to be in a relationship with a quality guy ...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (F)

age - I have been single for a long time and I am very excited about being in a relationship. I met a guy that is ten years younger than me. He is very smart (I like that) and very handsome. He has an ok job , but that is fine with me as long as he works. We went out and have great ... (147 words)

I would like to know where my boyfriend is during the day, and night, 24/7.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

29 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I would like to know if its too much for me to ask my bf about his whereabouts. By asking about his whereabouts I mean just asking him his plans for the day and what he'd be doing, not the crazy gf sort of asking every hour. Personally I feel that its basic courtesy and ... (96 words)

She is the one I want, but am I the one she wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been really close friends with a girl for about six years now - she's helped me through some tough times and we've remained close friends despite living a few hours apart for the past two years. I've always been rather fond of her, but now, I'm quite sure I love her. The ... (147 words)

My ex's friend said he fancies me more than my ex does!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I got a text from my ex a couple of days ago saying "I want you. I love you. ", and he said it was him texting me, and he was using his friend's phone. He has used his friends phone to text me before when he has no credit on his phone. I also got a text from his friend, who's ... (211 words)

I am too attatched and clingy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem and I'm really hoping someone else has gone through this and can help me. I feel as if I'm too attached and clingy to my boyfriend. Not to like an obsessive point, but more like I'm with him as much as I can be, I drop everything and anything to be with him o... (162 words)