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Archived questions from: 5 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's going on a holiday without me after I've been asking him for a year!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

5 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice regarding my boyfriend going on a snowboarding holiday. For a full year I have asked him if he wants to go on holiday with me, he says he does, but whenever I speak about holidays or point any out he always finds something to say; for example; lets ju... (400 words)

"I like you a little too much, I don't wanna take advantage of you." what does he mean by that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello (: I have a guy best friend, both of us are 21 and we've known each other for over a year now. Just recently, we confessed that we have feelings for each other and we've decided to take this friendship to a whole new level. He asked me out few days after that. Then... (147 words)

Does pubic hair go grey?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - General query: I've been wondering what happens to the colour of pubic hair as you age? My concern is I like to keep things neat and trimmed down there, so when it grows back every couple of weeks I give it another trim. However, what happens when you get older? Does it g... (122 words)

What do guys think of their ex fwb?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering after a friend with benefits situation has finished because the guy got a girlfriend, will the guy tend to still have sexual thoughts when he sees the ex fwb? My guy fwb broke things off cause he met someone but he still keeps on my radar, when he doesn't ... (169 words)

How many is too many?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

5 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - How many sexual partners is bad by the age of 18? I was 18 at the end of July and I've slept with 8 people and had additional sexual partners. I was just wondering is this bad already, or if not, at what point does it get bad?... (50 words)

Is she just not into me any more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

5 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl this summer, she lived right in my neighborhood. Immediately, we connected and hung out a couple of times. I admit I should've been more upfront with her with the fact that I was leaving out of state for grad school but I thought things would remain casual between ... (373 words)

I want to tell my fiancée I sometimes wear women's panties, but I'm afraid of what she'll think!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I've got an odd thing goin on. Basically I like to wear girls panties, but mainly just when I masturbate or at night when goin to bed. It makes me feel more intimate and they are more comfortable than my boxers. I sometimes wear them to bed without y fiancé ... (156 words)

He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship, but is now ignoring me after (wrongly) accusing me of cheating!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

5 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this one guy, and I'll name him "N". He's the very first guy that I've ever fallen for after so many years, and he knew that I like him. So, we hooked up lots of times, had drinks together, we hung out and we became very, very close, but we're not in a ... (239 words)

Does he want a relationship or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

5 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I started seeing this man a few weeks ago, he is not really my type but after getting to know him, I've discovered I really like him. When he texts me, he seems very cool, calm and collected but in person, he's a bit awkward and acts nervous around me, which I think is very ... (255 words)

I know I'm chilled and laid back, but a man called me "boring"! How can I change giving that impression?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been single now for about 2 years. I don't really date much but I went out with a Co worker the other night, we just went to dinner. Physically I know he's attracted to me but he did mention to me that I was "boring". I right away felt a bit offended but he said that it ... (146 words)

What can I say to make things better with my fiancée, and why have I upset her so much?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 December 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiancee is not speaking to me apart from to say she thinks we should break up. It all started the other day when we were going to a Sci Fi convention. She was ok to go with me but I could tell she was a bit bored. When we got home, I asked her if she had enjoyed it and she ... (254 words)

Do you think this relationship has a future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

5 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All, I'm trying to weigh up if my relationship has a future. I'm struggling to sound it up. We have been together for just over 2 years, we did break up for 3 months. we gave it a second go, he broke my trust, he made a lot of personal changes, I gave it a go, and for... (914 words)

Should I stay or should I go? Reunited with ex but got no closure over a women I dated while we were broken up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

5 December 2013 (M)

age - Hi, every body, well my EX and I got back together year an a half ago, broke up cause after 7 years she never told me she loved me, when we got back together she said it once, I have told her many times, she says she has a wall up. But after all this time you would think th... (288 words)

We broke up but she won't move out

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

5 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - There's a woman who I've been in a relationship with for over a year and a half- and we've broken up in September of this year. She currently lives with me- though I want her out because we're not getting along at this point. This is primarily because we're arguing a lot, she's ... (502 words)

My ex overstepped the mark!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

5 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my ex (we broke up 4 years ago and are now 'friends', albeit distant) came to visit me, to give me a present for my birthday. He said his last train was at 22:30. Then we got something to eat. He was taking forever finishing his glass of wine and wasn't keeping track of ... (279 words)

How do I ask her out? Do I or don't I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 December 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I've got abit of a dilemma, their is a woman that lives down my street, we say hello when we see eachother and the other day, she saw me outside a house that I've recently bought. She said how its nice and I made abit of a cheeky comment saying 'if you want to help me to ... (108 words)

He says he loves me but doesn't trust me to carry out his wishes!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My son's father has been dating me now for 15 years. We have seen turbulent times. He left me after the birth of our son and started seeing a coworker of his. This relationship lasted about 4 years. He denied it was anything more than a casual friendship, but did have ... (271 words)

Can our relationship last with his friends and family hating me and blaming me for the problems we've had, when my B/f was clearly in the wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

5 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there any hope for our relationship? I had a wonderful relationship with my partner for the first 5 years, then in the fifth year I found out he'd been meeting up with an ex partner. They both swore nothing happened but they had met several times, in a few cases my partner... (417 words)

My guy friend acted liked a jealous boyfriend and now he won't speak to me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

5 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a really good guy friend who started out a perfect gentleman and he made it abundantly clear our relationship was strictly platonic, so it seemed. After a while he started to become jealous and possessive. Every time he'd hear me commenting on or talking to/about... (228 words)

My boyfriend died 2 years ago and I don't know how to move on

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - He was my childhood bestfriend and we started dating when i was 14 and half years old. I am 19 now. He was my first boyfriend, first kiss, and basically he was my first at everything. We were very naive. We actually started talking about where we are getting married, how many... (475 words)

I'm worried if I have a serious health problem that my fiance will be getting cheated

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

5 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a problem that I am feeling very unsure about. I am getting married soon and my life with my partner is fantastic. I love her to bits. She is beautiful inside and out, caring, loving, and I have never been happier. We have a big wedding planned and a fantastic honeym... (191 words)

Boyfriend has become distant again. How do I handle it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

5 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my bf for 3 years. I don't live with him but stay over at his place on the weekends and we see each other during the week IF our schedules allow but it isn't often. I'm 31, and he's 35. We've been having issues over the last several months and started fighting a ... (551 words)

He spent a month chasing me and I finally gave in, so shouldn't he be happy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

5 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for three years and we recently broke up. I went no contact with him for a month. During this period he tried calling, texting, social media and even showing up to places or bars that I normally go too. He even left messages on my friends phones. I ... (181 words)