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Archived questions from: 7 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He said he loved me while he was drunk, then took it back after sobering up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

7 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Been seeing a guy since August. Told him a few weeks back that I loved him. He said he wasn't there yet, which is fine. Last weekend when we were both really drunk he told me he loved me numerous times. The next day once he had sobered up he said he didn't love me yet but deep... (95 words)

I haven't met him yet but we have flirted by text.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3887 days ago

7 December 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - First off, I am in high school. I'm a freshman. There's this guy that I saw recently walking with one of my guy friends. I asked my friend that was walking with him to chat me up. He said he would but that the guy-Cody- that I thought was hot was kind of going of going after ... (101 words)

I am still not sure where I went wrong, or even if I went wrong.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

7 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I went on a date with this guy, I thought it went really well, he initially suggested meeting up again, and then later when I said we should watch a movie sometime, he seemed keen, he then suggested we go back to mine. But then we hooked up and he hugged me after then abruptly ... (235 words)

I get jealous when he talks to his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

7 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I stop worrying and being jealous when my boyfriend talks with his ex girlfriend? My boyfriend is friends with this ex and they have a few close mutual friends, and whenever he talks to his ex, I get a little jealous and worried and I don't know why. I guess because ... (186 words)

How to get him out of my mind and heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

7 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: TWO QUESTIONS FROM SAME ASKER COMBINED Dear everybody, please help me there is this cool guy my classmate his behaviour made me feel he likes me but now i guess i was a victim of pure flirtism or maybe just a tp material for him but the problem is i cannot get this... (220 words)

I feel like he should have told me he was talking to his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

7 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out that within the past few weeks or so, my boyfriend has skyped/video chatted with his ex girlfriend a few times. I'm not upset that he did, what I am upset about is the fact that he didn't tell me. He is usually open with me and never hides stuff which is why I'm... (145 words)

I feel like he`s putting his friend first

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

7 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have been going with my bf for about two years. We don't live together we live about twenty mins apart. But since I move from the same village he always spends time at his friends on the drink and only comes to c me about four times week. I do not get on with his friend so ... (116 words)

He tried to stick me with the bill on our first meeting ...

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

7 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy who I thought really likes me. We exchanged phone numbers, and few days later he offered to meet. So we go for a walk in one of the cool areas of the city, and we walk and walk, walk and walk, talk and around 2 p.m. I felt nautios from hunger. He doesn't say a... (853 words)

We really connected and now he wants me to visit for New Year

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

7 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Having a little dilemma here... I meet guy at a sports training event about 2 months ago - we didn't talk but made eye contact with each other. A few days later, I saw him at the gym. We started talking - and evenually exchanged numbers. The next day, he asked if I wanted to go ... (374 words)

They said I make them nervous and insecure ......

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

7 December 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - The last two relationships, well I say relationships, they didn't get past the dating stage, failed because of the same reasons. Both said I make them feel a bit nervous and insecure. I'm a bit worried about this now that both give me the same reason. What am I doing wrong? ... (86 words)

Are there any house proud men out there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

7 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Are there any house proud men out there? My boyfriend keeps his house tidy but it's definitely not as clean as I think it should be. For example the oven and microwave have NEVER been cleaned apart from a quick wipe down so they are thick with grease and grime. The shower is ... (303 words)

He has been cheating for eight years, and I have collected the proof!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

7 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I've been with the same guy 8 years I've been by his side through the roughest of times i had met him while he was married he left her for me . I've done everything possible to make him happy I've never cheated I've never been attract ed to any one else or thougt of anyone ... (319 words)

Men aren't interested in dates these days, they just want to shag!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

7 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - What is wrong with guys these days?? I am a newly single woman on my 30s. I ve been married for many years since I was 21, and have a teenage son. I meet men often, I started going out, but I don't only meet guys in bars, but just randomly they approach me on a street.... (784 words)

This guy seems too good to be true!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

7 December 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Okay, First I started talking to a guy just recently through our personal emails. We happen to be on the same site so I left him a message. I didn't think he would respond, but he did. His profile was very long and he wrote a lot things about who he is and what he wants. There ... (584 words)

Should I cut contact with the girls I used to flirt with and focus on the one I really like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

7 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel bad about this whole situation, okay there is this amazing girl whom my eyes were always attracted to and I've kept my eye on this chick for months I never made a move, I never even talked to her before and last Monday I was flirting with a few girls via Facebook and I ... (345 words)

Am I wrong to think he shouldn't be quite this upset about my past?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

7 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been talking to this guy who I met through a dating website for 6 weeks now. We became friends on facebook and have been texting for awhile. We've been skyping probably every other day or so for the last month because he lives in a different state. Everything seems to be ... (516 words)

I just found out my boyfriend has a baby but he denies it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

7 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, im 16yrz and i've been dating my b.f for 7months. I just find out that this b.f of mine who is 18 years has a baby. I was shocked when i 1st heard it.. When i asked him last week he denied everything.. I know that he is lying to me. i just dont know what to do... (61 words)

Do you think he is "into me" beyond just the physical aspect?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

7 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for about a month and a half now, and we became intimate right away. At first I thought that, perhaps, I'd goofed and "gave it up" too soon, therefore ruining all chances of a real relationship, but this guy has continued to want to see me, even ... (380 words)

I'm obsessed with the girl my boyfriend was in love with before me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

7 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I ruined my boyfriend's relationship with his best friend. I didn't mean to, but it was absolutely my fault. My boyfriend (of three years) had been in love with his childhood friend for many years, and remained in love with her when we started dating (which I was not aware of ... (271 words)

Follow up to a previous question: I took the advice given and I'm meeting the guy. Now how do I impress him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4032 days ago

7 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've previously asked a question on this particular situation, however since then it has progressed positively thankfully, and i'm now in need of some more advice. Here is the question i previously asked: 'I'm going to sound like an absolute idiot for asking this but... (540 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me for not supporting him in an argument with my mum

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

7 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Ive recently split up with my boyfriend of 4 years, we met at university and practically lived together since, as relationships go we've had out ups and downs. I'm very close to my mum, my dad died when i was 4 so i have just grown up with my mum and grand... (755 words)