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Archived questions from: 4 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why would my B/f give the woman his new phone number if she meant nothing to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4034 days ago

4 December 2013 (F)

age - my boyfriend works for the union and travels to jobs three weeks to four weeks out at a time. almost on every job he becomes friends with a woman and gets her number. one job he was working with this woman who he told me they joked around all the time and how much she loves ... (179 words)

How can I help my boyfriend feel less guilty and not worry about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

4 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi y'all! I have poted here numerous times regarding me leaving an abusive relationship! I am dating a really amazing guy now that I met at law school. He is on a trip with his firm in NY, and I will be facing my abuser in court tomorrow. Problem is that my ... (319 words)

Why is it that nice guys don't finish at all?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

4 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Why is it that it used to be that nice guys finished last. But it seems like now nice guys don't finish last, they don't finish at all, and are prevented to do so? I'm really just looking for girls answers.... (41 words)

He expects me to be ready at a moment's notice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

4 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm starting to get a bit annoyed at my boyfriend but I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or not. He has a habit of calling me and expecting me to be ready to see him at a moment's notice, and if I say I can't he doesn't seem to understand why not. For example he might call me on ... (515 words)

Does this girl like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

4 December 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - Does this girl like me. We spend a lot of time together and we get along verry well. We have symillar intrests and she atends quite a few clubs i do. She even started atending a couple that i told her i did. About a week ago we went to see a movie but that was with a few of her ... (94 words)

Found out he cheated before we broke up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

4 December 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I just found out that my ex-boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me the last 2 weeks of our relationship. We broke up in May, about 6 months ago, and I just found this out last night. We have been arguing/talking ever since but now that I officially know that he cheated on me, I ... (206 words)

How do you keep a man happy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

4 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This may be a stupid question but how do you keep a man happy? What makes a relationship work and last? I've been with my bf for 7 months and I really care about him and don't want to lose him, I want to continue to make him happy and make our relationship work. Our rel... (146 words)

He wants it to be a date but I'm not sure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

4 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend has just asked me to go to his for pizza and moies and it started out as a friend thing but now he's told me he wants it to be like a date as he really likes me. I used to really quite fancy him but now I'm not sure and I don't want to lead him on, how should I go ... (97 words)

Will my feelings continue to grow for him? He's not my usual type!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

4 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts, I recently did a two week volunteer placement and fell for one of the instructors there, hes 25 and i'm 21! Anyway, when I first started there I was obviously nervous and wasn't attracted to him straight away! After about 3 days I noticed him watching me and felt... (475 words)

How do I keep screwing up the transition from dating to relationship?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

4 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there folks. I'm going crazy over here 'cause it seems that whenever I REALLY like someone (like her in a gf kind of way) I mess it up in some unknown, mysterious way. Other girls I'll have no problem, I'll half-ass it and still have something with them (maybe that's why?), ... (694 words)

He never has money for things we do together

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

4 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months. I'm shy and have not dated a lot. We have a lot of issues. He hardly ever has any money due to debt following divorce, so he doesn't often take me out or buy flowers or gifts, but goes drinking. Sometimes he becomes very distant ... (168 words)

My boyfriend cheated on his girlfriend to be with me and now I am having a hard time trusting him!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

4 December 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Hello. How do you learn to trust someone? My boyfriend cheated on a girlfriend to be with me. He left her for me. Now we are a couple. We have been for about 6 months. He claims how much he cares about me and treats me well over all. Speaks of a future with me. We ha... (470 words)

Last month Court found me "not guilty' and her accustions as "false". But this girl has ruined my life. How do I move on?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

4 December 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I need any advice I can get. I was in a very volatile, messy relationship. At first I thought this girl was amazing. She was beautiful, independent, all of the above. After a few months things didn't appear to be as what they should be. Alarm bells were going o... (368 words)

My boyfriend says he doesn't know what he wants from the relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

4 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - For the last 2 weeks my boyfriend says he doesn't know what he wants. We are meeting for a drink this week end to talk. I have backed of to give him space. I said if he doesn't know what he wants we shouldn't be together but he doesn't want to break up either. I know he's ... (169 words)

When I jokingly told my B/f that I'm going out on a hot date, he said "the only date you'll get is that homeless guy who sleeps in the bus shelter"! Ouch!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

4 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. When I called my boyfriend last night, after not seeing him nor hearing from him for a few days, he said he's very busy. I jokingly said in that case I'm going out on a hot date. To which he replied: "the only date you'll get is that homeless guy who sleeps in the bu... (114 words)

I don't want to waste my time on someone who isn't looking to be with me long-term.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4035 days ago

4 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I've been seeing a guy for around 6 months. It was going well until a around a month ago. He told me he was looking to live on his own in future or a buy a place with his sister. In principal, Im not against this but at the time it made me feel like he wasn't l... (586 words)

I managed to get out of a toxic, abusive relationship but now my ex wants me back...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

4 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been in a relationship for two years. From the moment we met our love was very passionate and intense. However, are fights were also very intense. From my opinion it appeared to me that he had a very bad temper. When we would get in fights he would twist stories, lie, and ... (453 words)

What does it take to attract a woman beyond friendship?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

4 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I am seriously confused by this. No matter what I do, how hard or little I try, how direct or subtle I am about my intentions, women only seem to want to be “just friends” with me. At this point I’m pretty sure I’ve heard it all. “You’re such a great guy, but…”, “You’d make ... (208 words)

Am I friend-zoned or is she not interested? And should I persist or give up and break contact?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

4 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been casual friends with a woman i've known for about two months. I kept getting mixed signals from her one day she'd be really warm another day she'd be really cold. Anyhow I asked her out on a date and this is what she told me: 'I appreciate it but I am looking for ... (149 words)

I still love this man. So be nice. But we've been separated 3 years. We have adult children. Yet he tells his Gfs that he can't divorce, due to our children. What's he playing at?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

4 December 2013 (?) age - We've been separated for 3 years! He is telling his so called girlfriend he hasn't sought a divorce because of our kids. Our kids are adults!! I don't think he doesn't want to divorce me, I caught him cheating, I was devastated he begged me to forgive him but I just never... (121 words)

Does getting back into a relationship with an ex ever work out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

4 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I have a question. Does getting back into a relationship with an ex ever really work out? I was with a girl for two years and we have been broken up for a year now. I took it really hard when her and I broke up. I have had 2 short term relationships since the break up but... (375 words)

I'm obsessed with my fiance's brother!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

4 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my fiance for 4 and a half years now we are very happy and plan to spend our whole life together. However, I've always had a thing for his brother. It's hard to explain but we have this weird connection neither of us have with anyone else. We have little jokes ... (194 words)

I fancy my neighbour...what should I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4036 days ago

4 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I fancy my neighbour. I moved in about 3 months ago and have chatted to him a couple of times since then. This evening a few of us went out for a drink in the local pub to discuss the car park. I know - exciting times! However, after we'd talked about the main points, he ... (111 words)

My mother's been ill and I don't know how I'd cope without her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

4 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone, i just wanted to ask a question. my mother is just getting over breast cancer. she got chemo and is doin ok now. but this happening to her has really struck a cord with me. its like it brought to light how easily she cud be taken from me. im 30. i have an older ... (175 words)

Bullies and more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4035 days ago

4 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey there, so I figured I could use some advice with just everything going on recently. I'm just fed up with how things seem to have turned out. So firstly at the end of December last year (2012) I discovered I had weak veins in my legs this led to really bad pain in my spine ... (214 words)