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writes:Hi. I've decided to finally let a guy know that I like him. Trouble is, when? Because he's leaving to go study far (600 miles away). In exactly 2 months, then I'll never, ever see him again. I've liked him for over a year now and I was too scared to tell him before. When should I tell him - just before he leaves or rather the sooner the better? If he were to resopond positively to this, then what would be of our relationship? Would it probably have to be just a little summer fling? (It's summer here). I'm not interested in a fling though, I tend to go for long-term relationships. But then again, I really, really like this guy and anything with him would be amazing... When should I tell him? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (3 December 2013):
 I agree that you would be setting yourself up for pain if you start a little something with him.... let it go....
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (3 December 2013):
 There is no point in telling him as he is leaving in two months. Let this crush go, LDR don't work and is too stressful.
You will meet someone else, he is a crush that you will get over in time.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 December 2013):
 What the point? Honestly?
You think a 2 months summer fling won't hurt you when he leave? Think again.
I think having a crush on someone is lovely, but there is not always good reasoning in telling them.
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