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Archived questions from: 9 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He was shaking when we made out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So recently I have had a threesome, it's the second time with the same guy. Well this time my bf was in the shower when he came round so as had be arranged we started to make out, but while we were making out he started shaking almost like he was nervous? He is 23 and I am 20 ... (142 words)

Our sex life is lousy and now I find he's been using a lot of porn

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I’m a bit messed up and confused at the moment, so I am hoping to get some answers/help. My partner and I have been together 3 years and were planning to marry next year. We had sex about twice a week when we first met, and I was much slimmer then, as I w... (418 words)

What does my ex want? Is he playing mind games?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello dear cupid. I need help figuring out what my ex boyfriend is doing. We met and after a month he said he wasn't ready to be in relationship. And I accepted it and told him not to contact me. He didn't stop he kept contacting me. I didn't spoke to him for a month but he ... (181 words)

I feel my husband is much too close to another woman. He says I'm making it up. Who's right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi aunts and uncles. I have a question about my husband´s choice. He has many female friends since I met him, and ex girl friends, and ex ``love of his life `` in high school time. So,I knew that he kinda have contact always with them. But since a while ago he met this woman, ... (358 words)

How do I leave my wife and my children?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

9 December 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, How can I leave my wife and two kids? I know these columns are normally reserved for women , but being a man with out any one to talk to and with a story I want to share with you I feel, I can tell no one else in the world, not my brothers , not my father not my fr... (1694 words)

Confusing signals from an ex who broke up with me. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating this really awesome guy in august. Things went really well for a month and I started pressuring him to put a title on the relationship. He said he wasn't ready for that and I said I was ok with it but still kept pressuring him until eventually we broke up. We ... (324 words)

I dated a guy who turned out to have a girlfriend. Who, or what, was I to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy three months ago at school. We hit off well and started dating, then he asked me to be his girlfriend. Things went well for the first week we were together, after that he became a little distant and we only saw each other once a week and would hangout in between ... (336 words)

Dont know should I get back with my ex?? Advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, So this summer i have broken up with my boyfriend and i told him honestly it is because he is not social enough and kinda boring and because im young i wanna have fun. And he fell in love with me so i kinda broke his heart and of course i felt bad like he is a great gu... (244 words)

Do we have a purpose, a goal that everyone of us have work toward to achieve? If so what is it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

9 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - It may not be an appealing question to many, but I just can’t comprehend the idea that many people don’t really give a damn about ultimate purpose life if I can call it in simple. Most people do so much discussion and research, if ma call it on petty thing in life such movies ... (164 words)

We are not making sweet music

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and love him very much. in recent months, things have gone a bit stale in the bedroom. i recently plucked up the courage to speak to my boyfriend about it and he said lets try using some music. this sounded like a good idea and so i ... (131 words)

How do I get rid of this loser from my head and my life????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in love with a loser for two and a half years. He is 7 years older than me. I believe he is addicted to drugs (cocaine, addy, maybe even speed). And I believe he is a cheater. I have found articles of women's clothing/accessories, spontaneously appear among his ... (399 words)

Advice on how to mentally get in the frame of mind for sex with him when I don't really want it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i need help to resume my sex life with my bf after 9 months of no sex please. We have been together 3 yrs, lived together for 1.5yrs after he proposed out of the blue, and have a gorgeous 11month old who he dotes on. We stopped having intercourse as I was afraid it'd hurt ... (282 words)

I have a boyfriend and a FWB relationship! How do I stop this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4030 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dearcupid: any advice plz help me I have thiS friend of mine since 7yrs ago he have a GF I do have boyfriend and our partners knows that we are best friends... In this 7 years friendship for 5years we are sexbuddies this start the day he found in my room bizzy musterbating I ... (155 words)

How difficult is it supposed to be for a man to orgasm from receiving oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

9 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Not sure if any of the same people are around or have even read my previous posts, but to update, I've long gotten over my anxiety and have been having a "healthy" sex life. I'd love to ramble about how much better I am at having sex, but let's get to the important stuff:... (274 words)

I had a drunken one night stand when my fiance broke up with me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have woken up feeling awful. I just need to vent. 3 months ago I was a normal , happy girl , engaged to my lovely partner, we had our problems but doesn't everyone. A classy, professional , quiet girl, but always laughed and smiled. We had a huge fall out one night. He t... (634 words)

I've got it all and done it all, so what next!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am faced with a strange dilemma. I am 31 years old, I made all my childhood dreams come true already, I am recently divorced, have no kids because I never wanted them, men fall all over me, I have a healthy lifestyle, steady job, car, a cat, I am lacking nothing in my ... (121 words)

Usually men like me but this one is not helping my self esteem.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this man a long time now. He rejects me a lot, he insults my independence and he tells me that I will never have a boyfriend. I can t lie I have said some mean things to him before too. He told me I was not a normal girl and that I was obsessed with him and ... (227 words)

Seven months full on flirting, and now he has just disappeared!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy has been flirting with me for 7 months now, he is a nurse at the place where my gram lives. All his coworkers know he likes me they watch him watching me, my relatives know he likes me he would always ask them about me.months of talking, flirting he is always blushing ... (308 words)

He's been there and done that, but I haven't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has a wild sexual past. I don't. Our sex life is as vanilla as it gets. I don't mind being vanilla, but I'm hurt that he doesn't want to try anything even remotely kinky with me. Unfortunately, he was way too open when we met. He told me all about his exes a... (233 words)

My heart desires my cousin's ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

9 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am finally moving on from my ex, and another girl has caught my attention. The problem is that she has a baby with my cousin. They haven't been together for 2 years, and it was the first time they had sex when she got pregnant, they literally got to know each other when ... (367 words)

I just don't feel the love anymore.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Three of those months were spent doing long distance. I'm a freshman in university and he's a senior in high school. At first, we were okay, we were making it work. But recently we've been fighting a lot. Small fights turned ... (746 words)

I don't want to come across as weird to the girl I like.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

9 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl I keep talking to at this local store I'm always at and she always gives me discounts and gets all nervous when I come in. She clearly likes me, and I want to ask her out but to be honest, I've always been awful at that. Not for fear of rejection, but because I ... (110 words)

Is he cheating or was it a harmless joke?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night at a party, I overheard my boyfriend of 7 years tell his friend that they should go to some town because the "chicks will like them better there." He didn't know I ha just walked in the room at the time. I confronted him about it as soon as the other guys went ... (205 words)

The wonderful man turned into a beast, how can I move on from this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4002 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't really know why I'm writing on here, maybe just to get some advice on how to deal with it. Me and this man were good friends for 5 years. We met through mutual friends and hit it off straight away but were both in relationships and were only ever friends. We soci... (438 words)

Any advice on piercings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

9 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok be warned explicit content! My fiance and I are both woman and have been together for two years. Our sex life is awesome but I have always considered getting a clit piercing. Recently I was introduced to a friend who works at a reputable piercing place where my friends... (201 words)