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Archived questions from: 18 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I being too harsh on her? She does have her problems. Or is she the one doing the pressuring?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

18 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been good friends now for about 4 years and used to be incredibly close, but over the past year, things have gone from bad to worse and I don't know what to do. We met at college, lived together with other friends for a year and then decided to find our own place last y... (859 words)

I cheated on him, once. Yet I can't picture my life without him. What do I do about my guilt?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

18 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm about to get married to my bf of 5 years I do love him very much and I am very happy that we are going to get married, but I am having second doubts about getting married, because I am guilty of cheating on him once in the past, while we were together we were going through ... (249 words)

Would you romantically date a co worker even if it was against employer policy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

18 December 2013 (M)

age - I work at a school where most of the teachers are female and many are single. As a single male I'm attracted to a few of them but I never show interest or do or say anything to alert them to my interest. 1 of these teachers has invited me to her home, asked me for home rep... (193 words)

Should I ask my boyfriend about his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

18 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a kind of confusing situation. When my boyfriend and I first started dating I know he was still talking to his ex girlfriend all of the time and at that time I thought he maybe still had feelings for her, despite him saying he didn't. I've always been suspicious o... (184 words)

Partner and I together for 6 years but feel so trapped. And I am pregnant. What do I do about my feelings for my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

18 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner 6 years.start of this year innocently I sent a message to a ex on fb about something simple and things just escalated from there. We started being in same places at same times etc as meeting when we could,even sleeping next to each other 2 nights but ... (301 words)

Is there such a thing as a man loving you unconditionally?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I wanted to ask for an opinion of dating. I used to be in an abusive relationship for five years before enough was enough (called me fat when I was 128 and 5"3 - spit on me controlled me and I gave him everything) I walked away I hopes of finding a kinder man that would love me ... (333 words)

He seems to have pulled back -- what can I do to fix the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

18 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I made an account on linked-in few months ago. This guy added me. And we started talking. He asked for my Whatsapp. And at first I did not give him my whats app number, but then, after few weeks, I asked him to message me. So, we started messaging. At first, I never bothered ... (957 words)

What do women in particular think of a guy who's 30 and never had a girlfriend?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

18 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Anyway, I want to hear some opinions. Guys are welcome to comment, but I think that girls may be able to offer me some valuable insight as to what exactly my problem is, and whether or not anything can be done about it. I've always been rather shy. That's just the way I'v... (904 words)

He's made a mess of things, what is the best thing for me to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

18 December 2013 (F)

age - I started seeing my bf sept 2012 .in August 2013 I found him out in a lie about what he was doing due to tbis he confessed that in october 2012 he had been with this other woman on at least 4 occasions and had got her pregnant he wanted her to have an abortion but she refused ... (334 words)

I'm disappointed my boyfriend's thoughtless Christmas gift to me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

18 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I accidentally stumbled across the Christmas gift my boyfriend got me (it was addressed to me). It was a very wide, hot pink watch with a heart-shaped face, from a mid-range brand. I'm a little confused, because we have been together for 1 year and he has always known (unless ... (195 words)

I feel jealous when she talks about her random sexual encounters, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

18 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Some how I managed to make friends with a bi sexual female, who was attracted to me at one point but now she's not interested in me. So she hooks up with random men and women (never sustaining a relationship). Then proceeds to tell me about these encounters. Meanwhile I am in a ... (90 words)

I feel so used -- he dropped me as soon as we slept together

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

18 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I understand this is probably a trivial and common question, but it is really getting me down as this has never happened to me before. I met this guy and we got talking, we had a in depth conversation and he was really sweet. We changed numbers and I didn't think of him ... (215 words)