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Archived questions from: 22 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend asked me to marry him in 4 or 5 years

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

22 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am so broken hearted! My boyfriend asked me to marry him last night and I was so excited But tonight wanted to go look at rings and he don't want to buy me one cause it will cut into his beer money and he says I just asked you to marry me but I don't want to for four or five... (74 words)

Am I just being paranoid about this long distance association?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

22 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a long distance partner who I met on my holidays a while ago. I'm from England and he is from Wales. I really love this guy, he's funny, charming, very attractive and honestly I love spending time with him. The hitch is, I find it really hard to trust him. He had a hu... (305 words)

How do I inform my friends and family that I'm now a vegan?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

22 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically I converted to veganism 2 months ago because i nolonger want to contribute to the violence towards animals, with the bonus of improving my health and being one step closer to saving the planet. Now i've keep this a secret from everyone because i didn't want to d... (390 words)

I'm drawn to a woman I just met and I'm not even gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

22 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was at a party and I was just talking to m friends then suddenly this new girl in town walked in and I couldnt help but notice how pretty she is. But over the night I cant help but look at her. So finally I decided to talk to her and she's not only beautiful on the ... (216 words)

After meeting him once I know he's 'the one'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

22 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like someone that I only met once. I know it is absurd, maybe it's all a big fantasy in my head, but I just can't get him out of my head. I convince myself he's not the one, or force myself to stop thinking about him, but it all just comes back. I'm obsessed. I... (753 words)

I'm afraid my lack of sexual experience makes me a less than satisfactory lover

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

22 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 4 months ago, he's 2 years older than me and I know he has had sex before so he knew what he was doing. Since then, we've been sexually active and have sex 4-5 times a week. However, I feel like I'm not that good as he does most of ... (106 words)

If men can't be trusted why do we even try?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

22 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. I've been with many guys before him and I know this sounds dumb but nobody else gave me this feeling of satisfaction and love that I get from being with him. This relationship feels different from every other one that I've ... (342 words)

He says he is not sure, and wants to take things slow.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

22 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So the story is like this. I met this guy on this online website - okcupid. He was the one who messaged me first. Like all online interactions, we chatted a bit online for around three weeks...then we started talking over the phone...we have been out on five dates so far. ... (286 words)

Should I come out to him, or is he just being jokey?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

22 December 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, I'm having a little trouble. I'm 17 and Gay and I have this 18 year old "straight" friend. I've known this guy for about a year he used to go out with my old bestie. For a few months know he's being very flirtatious. Sending me topless Snapchats and then making up some ... (163 words)

Should I distance myself from my boyfriend while I sort out my mental health issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

22 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I hope I can receive some advice or opinion from others. A few weeks or so ago I spent time in a psychiatric hospital. I had a break down and was diagnosed with post traumatic stress disorder because of trauma suffered as a child(wont go into... (369 words)

I recently gave up my virginity and still find sex uncomfortable

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

22 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I’m currently in a new relationship with my boyfriend and I have lost my virginity to him. We have tried having sex twice. Every time we have sex, it feels slightly uncomfortable and very tight. My boyfriend can only manage to enter his cock half way inside me. How can I ... (121 words)

He's recently gotten married but started contacting me again

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

22 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'd really appreciate some honest opinions. Like a lot of people my age i ended up being very stupid and getting into what you could call a "casual" relationship. It was just sex for him but it wasn't for me and i ended up pretty heart broken. He and i stayed in touch ... (434 words)

I like a coworker but she is taken and her boyfriend could be abusive. What's my next step?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

22 December 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - to cut a long story short, shes Polish came over here with her boyfriend 4 years ago 3 years ago she started at my work not long after she started we got on really well spending time together etc, it came to the point were we had to do something about it, but she decided... (409 words)

How can I appreciate myself despite being faced with prejudice over being a black African.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

22 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - The negative opinion of black Africans and the negative reaction to to black people has me feeling bad about myself. I've been able to spend more time on the internet and increased social awareness has left me struggling to be happy with my race and culture. Even within my own ... (95 words)

Did I overreact over his drunk texts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

22 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend went out drinking yesterday. We had some disagreement two days ago. He first texted me if I was having a bad week back then, which I told him I did before. So I just simply replied "yes". He then texted me "I hope your week gets better. feel better kid, plea... (280 words)

Help! I think he likes me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4026 days ago

22 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically, I met this guy in church along with his sister. He was really friendly, even though I was shy and awkward, and tried to start and conversation. He even introduced one of his friends to me and invited me to the youth church. On the days when I would leave church quite ... (399 words)

He left when they were babies, and now wants to be "dad"!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

22 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I live in (MOD NOTE: City was deleted for privacy) Florida and have 3 daughters; twins [non-identical] aged 23 and a 19-year-old daughter who is their half-sister born to my husband (the twins' stepdad). The twins were born in 1989, and the father (who I'd been dating for 2 ... (507 words)

It bothers me we do nothing together .....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

22 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, So my boyfriend and I have been having some major issues. we've been fighting a lot! The major thing is we never do anything. this is our routine every day during the week. He works 11pm -7am and I work 11:30am-5:30pm. he gets off work comes home and goes to ... (274 words)

The online guy I talk to blows hot and cold!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

22 December 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Hello, I have a bit of a dilemma. I have been talking to a guy online and we have really good conversations. He told me he is a bit shy and I told him I am too. He told me that he likes my photos a lot and he looks at them quite often. He compliments me telling me I am ... (360 words)

Should I wait to have sex with my long distance boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

22 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, For the past 3 1/2 months, I've been involved in a LDR with a man I met at a speed dating event. The type of relationship we've had, has been one of intense passion, adoration, respect and honesty. It definitely wasn't something we both bargained for or wished fo... (351 words)

My girlfriend told me she doesn't like girls anymore then broke up with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

22 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My gf of 6yr recently up n told me she doesnt like girls anymore but she loves me. I asked how is that possible and she said it faded. So we ended up breaking up and getting bk together and she started acting distant from me. I came home fromwrk to find her n the room with a d... (287 words)

Flakey girls and the men who fall for them!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

22 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Just got back from going out, and my situation off that bat is I'm 27/m, never had a g/f, date, kissed, held hands, had sex, etc... And I don't want to be left out. So I'm approached by a girl who seemed at the time to be into me, got her something to drink. Maybe half hour ... (271 words)

I promised my girlfriend to never kiss or do anything sexual with her or masturbate, any comments?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

22 December 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I have no idea what to do or dont do. I made a few promises to my girlfriend and two of them are to never do anything sexual to her (including kissing) and never masterbate. Since my girlfriend thinks sex is gross and painful, I respected her decision and promise so I can ... (185 words)