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Archived questions from: 11 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My ex asked me if I was willing to have sex with him but he has a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

11 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, there's a lot going on. Me and my ex broke up about 4 months ago. We only dated for about a month in a half but we have been friends for about 4 years prior. After we broke up i started having feelings for him and I think I love him. So back to my problem. Yesterday I me... (170 words)

We were in a relationship but now we are just FWB!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

11 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help please. I recently got back with my ex- we broke up at the end of october but then started talking again and things are the same as if we had been dating. he had referred to us as friends with benefits-something we were a few years back and it led to us being in a ... (278 words)

Should I expect an official invite or am I just creating drama?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

11 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a long term relationship with my bf and we have been living together for 2 years. His nieces birthday is coming up and I've been uncomfortable to attend because I haven't received an invite however my bf feels that it makes no difference because we count as one. He ... (117 words)

I have a 'thing' with a guy but he wants to keep it secret.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

11 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have a thing with this guy, and my bestfriend over heard him telling his friend that he doesn't want anyone to know about us. I believe my bestfriend and he's the type of guy to say something like that too, what does all that mean and what should I do?... (54 words)

I've got nobody to talk to about my teacher crush!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

11 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like my teacher and it's really hard when I'm in her classes, but I know I can't say anything I'm not stupid. I told one close friends but she just seems to get really awkward when I talk about it. I wanted to tell a teacher but I don't want them to take me out of my ... (109 words)

My girlfriend keeps things from me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

11 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have always believed in having an open and honest relationship. Thus, whenever I am in a committed relationship with someone I strive to do this. About a year ago I asked my current girlfriend out and we entered a relationship. I have been relatively happy but a level of n... (214 words)

My emotions always over rule logic.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

11 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really childish for not this even being an issue in my life. There are two people in my life. I am currently in a relationship with one. The other is my recent ex. My ex and I split up in mid-late July of this year after dating for about a year and a half. Our rel... (1589 words)

How hard should I try to be a good girlfriend in his eyes?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

11 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my boyf for 3yrs, and living with him for 6mths, prior to moving in, Id only ever lived with my parents and could barely boil an egg.. It was obvious to me that my man wanted me to learn to cook, not just to please him, but for myself and if I have any children in ... (220 words)

How can I socialize with slight anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

11 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - If anybody could please advise , what’s the best way to through the issue above. Basically I feel down about myself and indeed never feel happy anymore or fulfillment of me being me . I feel as if I am going nowhere with life and life is just a cycle. Now I know I should b... (299 words)

I want to date her but I get shy when we speak face to face!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

11 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hiii My name is kev , and i'm 23 I had a girlfriend before ( we had been knowing each other by chatting) , and nowadays i am alone , so i have been having problem in communicating with girls in face to face style and girls who are alien up to know but i am very comfortable... (179 words)

He lost his friend. Now he's yelling at me, about how it's my fault. Is it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

11 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so my boyfriend and I broke up 2 months ago, but he says that we're on break. But we're still intimate. I have a jealousy of girls because all my boyfriends (except this one) has cheated on me. Naturally, I don't like girls now. So, my ex revealed to me 3 months ... (346 words)

My first love has moved on, but I can't seem to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

11 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi... I am a 21 year old girl nursing a broken heart. I've done many stupid things during the past year. And now I wish none of them happened. I wish I could change things but I know there's no point of wishing that, and I can't change life or other people. I met a guy Fe... (667 words)

He had a girlfriend the entire time we were dating and now he wants to meet up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

11 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating this guy for two months. Everything was perfect, we got along, we had the same common interest and we were going to college, both of our majors went hand in hand with each other and we really helped pushed and motivate each other in school. He told me that he reall... (420 words)

Am I overreacting or behaving in a passive aggressive way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

11 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok Aunts, feeling like Im overreacting or behaving in a passive aggressive way need your advice and take on this seemingly stupid thing. Background been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs we are in the process of moving in together i am div with a teenager, him never married no kids, ... (492 words)

I really want him back. Was it wrong to say what I said, especially as I did not mean it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

11 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I previously wrote here and took some advice on tactics to win my ex back. We only dated 2 months but I fell for him hard. I started pressuring him to put a title on the relationship which ultimately pushed him away. We broke up a little over a month ago. We went throug... (359 words)

I want him to help with our children. But can I trust him? Should I trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

11 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so here's the situation! I've been with my man going on three years and 2 months! It's been a heck of roller coaster I'll tell you this! Although I should have seen all the signs and signals to leave him in the beginning but being in "love" and convincing myself I needed h... (1677 words)

Why didn't I mean enough to him? Why did he stop making an effort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

11 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - After knowing this man for over 8 years and being friends, we decided to take things to another level. He is one of the funniest and likeable people I have ever met. When we made it official, so many of his friends and family reached out to me to get to know me, saying I... (529 words)

Should I continue or not? He swears they are just friends, now. But will his wandering eyes cause me a broken heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

11 December 2013 (F)

age - I am 63 and have been in a committed relationship since May, 2013. We've had a lot of fun together, get along pretty good, and have even talked about the possibility of moving in together. I lost my husband 4 years ago and he has lost his wife 3 years ago. My guy is 69 (ju... (224 words)