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Archived questions from: 15 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I get this girl to give me a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 December 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I tried to send this in before, but it was rejected. I will try to shorten it up (it was long because I wanted to give as much detail as possible and try to present HER side of the story), and I will try to make it more clear. I am at my wit's end regarding my gir... (1276 words)

Do I make a big stink or just quietly end things with this guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

15 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy kind of on and off for five months. We've both discussed that we do not want a relationship with each other, but enjoy each other's company and are attracted to each other. I told him that I loved him as a friend, because I do (honestly, and I'm not in ... (517 words)

She is happy when she is right and it seems she is controlling. Does she love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

15 December 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Relationship Profile: Our finances are slightly different now, I got a mediocre career,I had to quit my job a year before and looking for a job RN and she has a very good career and very good earning. She is also very ambitious/competitive but aimless.Also says she is happy... (422 words)

He's accusing me of adultery, with him, because I'm not yet divorced. We have so many issues. Is this abusive situation resolvable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My issue is, I been together with my bf for over 2years now, but on and off. It's our first baby, i left him and get a new house where we can live with my baby. we have a big fight all the time,thats why i left . I gave him so many chances,to live with us again, he says he ... (433 words)

He wants to go "no contact" after our breakup but the pain is unbearable for me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

15 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, I need some advise. I am in the in the mids of breaking up with my bf with whom I am with for 4 years. Is there anyone there who could help me lessen the pain a bit? I have read everywhere that the no contact rule should be applied but I don't want to get back with hi... (313 words)

Found out about my boyfriend's sexual past and now I'm heartbroken and sick to my stomach

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend more than anything and I know he loves me too. We are like perfect together and I trust him with all my heart which is really hard since I've been hurt really bad by my ex. We both agreed not to talk about his sexual past. I'm still a virgin and I don't ... (334 words)

Friend acted out and hasn't apologized. Should I get her a Christmas gift anyway?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - On the 27th of November my friend tagged me in a status saying Nickelback was "f***ing awesome" and because I was tagged in it, my gran saw it and commented on it saying that the swearing is disgusting and that its not needed. My friend responded in a way which sounds quite ... (241 words)

I don't understand why he broke up with me. Will giving him time help me get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

15 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I ve been with my ex for 4,5 years...it was long distance relationship but we were seeing each other very often and planning for me to move to his country and start living together next year,once i am done with my faculty. We had really strong relationship,were so much alike,sa... (719 words)

I talked her into coming to the same school and I'm afraid it's backfired

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My issue is that I'm afraid talking my friend Ally (not real name) into coming to the same college with me was a bad idea. I've had her as a friend since my high school days, and when I graduated she still had one year left. So while I enjoyed my freshman days at college, I ... (786 words)

I kissed another man, now my husband wants to sleep with someone to "get even"

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

15 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been married for 3 years and together for 6. I love my husband but we have had our issues in the past I cheated on him 6 months into our relationship by kissing another man he also touched my breasts. Nothing else happened and all contact with this man was cut and I came ... (204 words)

Is she seeing a friend or a date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

15 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So recently I met this Asian girl at a friends house and we all had dinner. We had a few drinks and got chatting. We had a lot of fun together and she told me something personal. Soon after it was cut short and it was time to go home. I walked her to her door and asked her for ... (276 words)

I asked my girlfriend not to drink so much when out with friends but she did so anyways!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

15 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so tonight my girlfriend went and hung out with one of her girl friends and said they were gonna go for happy hour and get a drink and some food. So I said don't drink too much please and she said she wouldn't but her friend messages me and said they got kicked out of the ... (141 words)

Is he playing games/flirting with me so he doesn't have to have the repairs done in my flat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

15 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently, workmen have descended on the flats where I live which are being refurbished and I have grown quite attracted to the manager in charge who works on-site. However, I'm really confused by his behaviour. Having requested a number of repairs to be done on my flat wh... (561 words)

My boyfriend doesn't like gay people

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

15 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has some troubling attitudes on life, and I don't know what I can do (if anything) about it. The one that comes to the forefront more often than others is that he dislikes gay people. Not to the point where he would commit hate crimes, but he will use slurs w... (161 words)

Could I get pregnant? Should I buy the Plan B?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

15 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time last night. (In other words, I gave him my V card.) But, because we were not expecting it to happen, we went unprotected. It didn't last too long because he didn't wanted to cum inside me, which he didn't. I need to know if it's ... (92 words)

Is there a tactful way to ask someone to back off on Facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

15 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I need a little help here... So I have this friend... he has told me he's been interested in me, but I have absolutely no interest in him whatsoever. I've made this clear to him, and he seems to be just fine with that. However, I've been having a problem with him... (228 words)

Should I break up with my girlfriend because of her family's reputation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

15 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Helo friends today after a lil bit of long time I again want your help.....actually i m in a relationship with s gal from last 1 nd half year,we both are happy together but their is a big problem about their family that I came to know before a week and I have all gone mad that ... (144 words)

My best friend has changed for the worse since meeting her boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I could really do with some advice right now. Please can you read the whole thing as I know sometimes people just answer the question that comes up as the title, regardless of what is said in the actual written part? I’m also so sorry for the length. Basically ever... (922 words)

Can someone who fell out of love fall back in love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

15 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 2 years just broke up with me with saying, he fell out of love. He tells me this has been going on for a few months and he doesn't think he can recover from it. He was so much in love with me. I was the center of his attention. We talked about marriage, wedding ... (467 words)