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Archived questions from: 13 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband makes twice what I do but wants to split our bills 50/50

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

13 December 2013 (F)

age - I live in an apartment with husband, Here is a break down of our expenses and earnings monthly Rent $920 inclusive of hydro. Tv phone and internet 102. Food around $300 - $330 Also we pay for apartment insurance. Food also includes all toiletries, washing liquid, conditio... (193 words)

Nervous about Christmas with my best friend's family because I have history with her brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

13 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello advisors. I apologize for the length but I feel like you guys need to know all the details before you can help me out with this. Before any judging occurs, there has been no cheating. Probably some lying but definitely no cheating. And for the record, I'm currently in a ... (925 words)

Why do you not lose weight whilst on your period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

13 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused with this whole 'you can't loose weight whilst on your period'. I have started my period and typically it's started on the first day of my weight loss. I'm eating very healthy and doing lots of exercise today onwards to get back on track after having eaten unh... (215 words)

Is this desire to leave my husband a temporary phase?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

13 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I don'tknow if i am the only one Who experience this feeling, but lately it overwhelms me and makes me feel restless. Short story: 20 years of marriage, 2 kids are in college, last year we are empty nesters. I was stay at home mom. When first child went to college, my husb... (603 words)

Should I send this letter to my narcissistic ex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

13 December 2013 (F) age 36-40 - My ex dumped me 6 months ago. A few months ago after I read something on the Internet, I realized that I'm a narcissist victim. I'm trying to move on, but I still think about him a lot. The last time i sent him a message was 2 months ago and he ignored me. Why is it so ... (128 words)

I need help explaining things to my younger teenaged brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

13 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Now this comes from my experience with my brother. We'd been a not-so-happy perfect middle-class family with a very fairly violent dad and a not-so-learnt mother. Parents divorced and me and my brother (6 yrs younger) decided to stay with mom - my brother because of food ... (570 words)

Am I no longer a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

13 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am in a new relationship. Yesterday my boyfriend and I had sex, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. I didn't bleed and neither did my first time hurt. My question is my boyfriend inserted half of his cock inside me, does this mean I am no longer a virgin? I though... (75 words)

In an unhappy relationship. Should I pursue things with the other man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

13 December 2013 (F)

age - Looking for some advise, I've been with my partner for 23 years. 6 years ago we split up for two years, in that time I met someone else and was with them for seven months. When that finished a while after I got back with my long term partner. Things were ok for two years th... (147 words)

How can I get a girl I'm dating to initiate our contact sometimes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

13 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there I like a girl and we are kind of dating. We hang out and talk for hours on text even. The only thing I was wondering was that I always have to text her in order to start conversations. It's about 10 days since I know her. She always reply my texts and even waits fo... (105 words)

Why do I sometimes find my boyfriend's behaviour confusing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

13 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm with a guy, that I find sometimes highly complex. I get confused by him. He's known as Mr Laid back non judgmental etc, yet extremely sensitive and reactive to other peoples opinions. And also casts some unfair opinions about certain people in his life. Also laid ba... (626 words)

I discovered my boyfriend texted his ex girlfriend. Should I say something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

13 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I borrowed my boyfriend's phone to make a call and noticed in his call history a unsaved number that been texted loads but the messages had been deleted, it bugged me I said nothing to him tho and he went back to camp (he's in the army). Now the other day when drunk he randomly... (299 words)

What does it mean when a girl whispers to her friend when you are around her ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

13 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when a girl whispers to her friend when you are around her ? and?then when you look at her she laughs and smiles at me it happened to me I was talking to her female staff members at the gym this girls friend came in at the gym counter and then one of the ... (87 words)

My wife just wants to party!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

13 December 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife lately start party with her girlfriend mostly every weekend.when i tell her to stop her get upset with me and she dosen't want me to touch her in bed or even to have sex.Please help.... (37 words)

I want some love and don't know how to get a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

13 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I'm a junior in high school, and I have NEVER had a boyfriend. A few guys have tried to approach me but I turn them down because they're man whores and just want to have sex. I hate seeing my friends with their boyfriend all lubby dubby etc. I want to experience all ... (116 words)

He said he still loves me - but did he mean it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

13 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - If you ask a guy if he still loves you and he says "yes", is he telling the truth? I mean, I know none of you know for sure, but is it likely that if a man says he still loves a woman, during a break in the relationship, that it's true? The reason I'm asking is because my bf... (176 words)

My husband is angry about my photoshoot even though he was there

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

13 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. My husband and I are having a difference of opinion and I wanted to get some objective views... so here I am. First of all, my husband (Dave) and I have been married a bit over two years but have known each other for about four years. I consider our relationship... (691 words)