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Archived questions from: 28 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I haven't heard from him since we had sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i met this man in April this year we had 4 dates i really liked him and we got on really well but due to problems on his side nothing came of it now boxing day we got back together he is still having the same problems not heath wise but family wise we carried on being ... (105 words)

Should I buy my boyfriend of 4 months the new Playstation 4?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Dear Cupid, I am in a LDR with a guy I met 4 months ago. We decided to make it official October of this year. Instead of exchanging gifts during Christmas time, it was a mutual decision for us to surprise each other with them in January when I plan to visit. I want an... (249 words)

Is this a mid life crisis or can men change so quickly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I had casually been seeing a guy for a year, I wanted a relationship but he didn't as he "doesn't have relationships" and I know this to be true. He had his life and I had mine, we never went out, only saw each other behind closed doors (again his choice, not mine but he had ... (268 words)

He has been lying to me for two years, and I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - me n my partners relationship is really rocky at the moment as alot of things have gone on n im on the verge of breaking up with him, we have 2 children so im scared. i found out from him something about his past......he was an escort.....people would pay him to just be in ther ... (203 words)

I like my best friend's sister.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

28 December 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, please can you guys give me your advice?! On new years eve, my best friend, his sister, her friend and I are going out of town for the night to celebrate.. The thing is, I seem to get on really well with my friends sister, we've all been out twice before and our s... (189 words)

I feel vulnerable and don't want to get hurt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) age 30-35 - Dear cupid agony aunts and uncles, I am writing because I do not know where to go from here. So the details: I am a gay man, and I met this wonderful gay man who lives a good 7 mins away from me. And well in the beginning he was very attentive. We went on a date and he e... (402 words)

Hopeless romantic falls for his teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I think that I'm obsessed, or maybe in love, maybe both, with my teacher. She is 24 and I am 18. At the moment I am a senior in high school. I've honestly had a crush on her since my sophomore year, and ever since I've grown more attached to her. She is the person to whom I ... (507 words)

My b/f doesn't want me to get another tattoo

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I could do with some advice. I'm 20 this year and in my country, it is legal to get a tattoo at this age. I've been meaning to get another tattoo next year. But my bf does not seem keen on me getting another tattoo. I am not a rash person and for my first tattoo, I ... (161 words)

My husband had an affair but the woman would not leave him alone.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help. My hubby had an affair with this girl about 2 years ago and we resolved the issue. But now th ex refuses to let go. She calls my husband's phn daily, sometimes with different numbers, even up to more than 10 times each day and says sh wll nt give him rest because ... (139 words)

He promised to spend New Year's Eve with him but cancelled to be with his friend. Should I stick it out or move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've dated my boyfriend for a year and out of the blue the past January he broke up with me. He became easily influenced by his mates as they broke up with their gfs and were single and he was the only one attached at the time. We spend New Year's Eve together (as we were still ... (372 words)

I met a guy online and he kept on postponing because of back problems. Should I wait it out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I have come looking for advice, just slightly confused about a sitaution .So a while ago I decided to give online dating a go. I met this guy online. We hit it from the start.Its been five months and we speak everyday, skype text etc... This guy i guess is a little ... (442 words)

I feel so used. Why didn't he value me as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok please help I was very good friends with a guy then he started confiding in me he had problems with the girl he'd been with for 5 years saying she was manipulative and made his life hard Stupidly I became close and we kissed a few times after which he backed away but kept... (162 words)

I dated a man and we are both going through divorce. He's been distant in texting. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey there I am new here. Quick question. I am dating a fabulous guy that I am head over heels in love with. We have been together for almost a year and were friends(more distant than close) over a decade before that. We live on two different coasts. We have talked abou... (232 words)

I told him we would only kiss if we were together, then he asked me to be his girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 female and don't know if I will regret the night I had. I am a virgin that has urges for sex but learn to control myself, wel I was drinking, tired and my heart was secretly hurting and 1 of my guy friends who I havnt seen for awhile wanted to kik it, long story short ... (199 words)

She's no good but I can't stop loving her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I've no idea what to do? I feel like I've tried everything. I met a girl years ago who I thought was the woman of my dreams. She's beautiful, and she's been successful in life. I discovered she was cheating and as a result we split up. For the past 2 years she's prett... (272 words)

Is she dropping hints or am I mistaken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Im not sure if im interpreting the signs correctly. I have a female coworker who is very touchy feely with me. Im lesbian so it doesn't bother me, she however don't know my sexual orientation. Anyhow, I notice when we are around each other she make an effort to touch me. ... (185 words)

He lied to me about being married!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at a friend's party a little over 2 months ago; he was really sweet and funny and about 2 days after the party, my friend told me that her friend told her that he was asking for my number, because he was not a direct acquaintance of my friend. So she asked i... (451 words)

I love him so how can I tell him I am not ready for marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with the same guy for three years. I love him very much, but like most young love we have problems. A few months ago he told me he didn't love me anymore, we didn't talk for 2 or 3 weeks but like always we kissed and made up. All of a sudden he is talking about ... (143 words)

Wait for the ex, or be with the new guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex of almost two years way back in February. Things started off well in the relationship, but gradually things went downhill. He only had a job for the first two months of our entire relationship, and I was the one that had to pay for everything. Dinners, ... (314 words)

Could my ex-boyfriend want more, or just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4012 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My exboyfriend broke up with me almost a month ago. He told people different things about why he broke up with me but he told me it was because we didn't connect. Obviously i still have some feelings for him but im trying to get over him. We both agreed to be friends. Lately ... (180 words)

On exchange: Should I give up a good school and see him instead?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi :) He was the most gentlemanly, thoughtful and humourous person I've ever met. We met when he was travelling. At that time, he decided to cancel his next trip to stay longer with me. We had picnics, went biking and visited new places together. When he left, he bought t... (240 words)

Long distance, who should move where?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I kind of have a question and would like to see what other people think about this or if anyone can give me some advice especially from someone who has been in a long distance relationship. Me and my boyfriend met online have been together for a while now. So we... (279 words)

I'm standing up to my controlling boyfriend and he's getting more and more mad at me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all. Please help. I.ve been seeing my bf for around two and a half years. I used to chase him like mad,and initiate contact. He is a controlling person,and got used to me doing that,and took advantage. I totally changed my pattern around two months ago. I kept my distance, ... (144 words)

He keeps throwing my past relationships in my face!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone ! I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. I love my boyfriend but lately things have been going downhill. He can't let go of my past. I don't know how he found out I hooked up with a guy before him and he keeps throwing that in face. I regret m... (179 words)

He chose an engagment ring for me, did I do the wrong thing with it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

28 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf of 2yrs gave me an engagement ring(only) on x-mas eve. Honestly I thought he wouldn't want to get married again. First marriage when he was a teen. Second, she cheated on him. Couldn't blame him if he had reservation on marriage. (I've never been married) The ring I l... (191 words)

I told her I was socially awkward and she laughed it off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I spent a day with a girl I like and her friend. I'm kinda socially awkward and didn't say much to them at all. It was really ridiculous on my behalf. She did say that she wanted to see me again so I don't think I came off too weird or creepy. So the next day I apologized for ... (151 words)