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Archived questions from: 26 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I drove him to the airport, so why isnt he texting how he is away?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf left for vacation to see his fam n hasnt txted me or anything. I tried texting him bt he doesnt reply. I know he is with his fam n his enjoying his time, bt just texting to know how I am is not much. Afterall, I was the one who volunteered to take him to the airport n ... (84 words)

Should I twist the situation or are my friends more important?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently one of my good guy friends, call him A, confided in my best-friend that he liked me. He also said that he was confused because he also like my other friend. If they started dating, I would probably be pretty upset, but I would be able to get over it. The only troub... (213 words)

What should I expect on a first date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been a closet crossdresser for a few years. Recently I had a pro do a makeover on me and was finally able to see myself able to pass with no problem. Now that I decided to go out into the world a friend of mine set me up on a blind date with some guy that she works with. ... (94 words)

Where is the passion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I appreciate any/all answers immensely because I'm feeling very lost. I have been dating a man for nearly 3 years now (I'm 22 years old) and he is a great individual..he is kind, affectionate, understanding, loving, intelligent, supportive, has a great career and is successf... (542 words)

I am terminally single and want a surrogate baby!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 December 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 30, straight male, never had a girlfriend or relationship and I have come to a point where I am thinking, I want a baby of my own. I have given up on the prospects of finding a girlfriend. Dating game has always been my weakest point. I have been quite successful with edu... (329 words)

Why is he keeping me in his life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Merry Xmas to you all, and thank u in advance for reading this. I don't know if my situation is rectifiable or not, so if anybody can help me sort this one I will be truly grateful and if I'm being honest kind of surprised! I know there doesn't sound like much hope so far... (1003 words)

I am alway in the friend zone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 December 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm in In high school, I had a lot (5) female friends and not very many male friends. I am a total nerd but not the smart kind, just goofy-looking and not athletic. I do real good with math and computers and physics but I suck at English and History and Art. Bad. I like ... (472 words)

I cant stop thinking about my neighbour...do I have a chance with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so lately I can't stop thinking about my neighbour. Her and her fiancé have lived next door to me and my parents for 2 years and I hit it off with both of them Immediately! They were nothing like the previous neighbours who were much older and barely spoke. ... (287 words)

Not sure if he likes me, or not, after he avoided me. Have I ruined my chances with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I thought a shy friend of mine liked me, and i think I am starting to develop feelings for him too, but i think I ruined my chance to form a relationship with him. The only reason why i think he likes me is because of our mutual friend's teasing. They've asked me multi... (264 words)

Did I leave it to long? Is she not interested anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I met a girl right before Christmas. We got on pretty well and by the end of the evening we were kissing. We were both with groups of friends so we exchanged numbers and parted ways. Next day I texted her telling her how nice it was to meet her and how I wanted to see her ... (194 words)

Does it sound like she feels more secure in long-distance relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (M)

age - I'm 51 she is 55. The other day, sitting on her couch Very close together side by side. I looked at her and told her for the first time I loved her. Without looking at me, looking forward she said I know.... I asked if she loved me... She turn turned her head away from me ... (293 words)

He wants sex all the time and I am starting to get really stressed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4.5 years and I'm starting to get really stressed out by the fact he wants sex all the time. I used to love having sex with him, but now I feel like that's his main focus and it's putting me off doing it at all. We only see eac... (448 words)

My bf blocked me from everywhere but he still reads my Facebook messages!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend blocked me from everywhere only because I asked one of his girls indirectly that if she is dating someone and if she is then what his name is I wanted an answer without anybody knowing it but then my boyfriend got to know about this matter from her. he fought with ... (100 words)

I am scared to tell him how much I feel just in case I get hurt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating for the last year but haven't found the spark with any of the guys. 6 months ago I decided to take up an opportunity to relocate to New York City from London with my current employer. However, I continued to date. Last month, I went on a date and found an ... (229 words)

I thought I was really into this guy but now I don't know!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I thought I really was into this guy and now I am confused on my feelings for him. I met someone new that I am also really starting to enjoy. I was not confused about guy 1 until guy 2 came along and now I'm confused about both! We have slept together a couple of times but now ... (172 words)

Am I overthinking because of guilt or did he really care?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been dating my ex-bf for 8 months before he dumped me saying "we are comfortable but it doesnt mean it's going anywhere.". when I asked him if he figured he wanna break up with me two weeks before (which is when I felt like he started becoming distant), he said no and ... (462 words)

After being so independant I now hate to be alone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So lately ive been feeling very strange. I feel like im a new person? I look at myself in the mirror and i just feel different, its hard to explain. Its not that i dont recognize myself, its that i feel different. I also have started to question litterally everything! My body ... (200 words)

After one awful attempt at sex with my ex, how do I prepare for my current boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

26 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently entered a new relationship after being in a long term one for the majority of high school. I had sex once with my ex, to be blunt it was awful. I couldn't even feel him inside of me because there was so much pain. We were intimate together nearly two years before ... (200 words)

After his cruel and bewildering attack it is as if I never existed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I was married for 19 years, no children, knew my ex for 22 years. He filed for divorce and i was not aware of anyone else on the scene. I got to hear about divorce not from him but solicitors email to me... I returned home to a half empty house. He never spoke to me again. It ... (185 words)

What if I don't actually like my inlaws?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone :) I was just curious…do most people get along well with their in-laws/parents of their SO? I'm in a relationship with a guy a really like, but my relationship with his family (parents and two older siblings) is just so-so. They're not bad people, but they... (227 words)

I said and then she said ..... so whose opinion matters?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

26 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Basically me and my GF had a big arguement over something really pathetic. However I believe her comments towards myself were personal and hating. The arguement was over the tiny statement that I made regarding " I would never include reciepts with my gifts, because the ... (241 words)

I know our timing has been off, but he hasn't contacted me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

26 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need your advice. I met this guy online and we've been gone to 8 dinners date. Our schedule had been very busy so for the last couple of weeks we hadn't been able to meet. I was out of town, then he had family issues, then I got sick.. The list goes on. I really like ... (314 words)