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writes:I started a new university course a few weeks ago, and during the first week we all went for a night out. i started talking to a guy (also from the course) and we got along well and spent the whole night out together, most of it just the 2 of us. When everyone was leaving the club, he got a phone call which he rejected and when i asked him who it was he said it was his girlfriend.. (just to be clear nothing happened at all!)Since then, hes said hello when we pass but we havent spoken as we don;t have any classes togther..until friday night, i went out with my friends again and i saw him in passing in the club. he looked over at us for a while and then came directly up to me and asked if he could buy me a drink.. i said yes because it was a free drink but i didn't know if he still had a girlfriend! anyway over the course of the night he bought at least 4 drinks and we kept talking, but again nothing happened.then today at uni it was just back to the awkward hellos again! what do you think he means by all of this, is he just being friendly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2013): Honestly he seems like he's just being friendly to me... I'm also a college student, seems around this age people just do that. They flirt hardcore even when they're in relationships because they don't truly value relationships (yet?)He sounds like bad news. Say one day you were his girlfriend, take this as an example of how he'd treat other girls while he was in a relationship with you... not too cool.Doubt he's already broke up by the way, and even if he is, that's a really short time to move on in... also not the best sign.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2013): Yes! He is being quite friendly. With sneaky undertones! He's hoping for a hookup. Don't accept anymore free drinks. In truth, there are strings attached, and he was loosening you up with alcohol. Next time he offers a drink, politely decline; and ask him how's his girlfriend.Don't let rumors get back to his girlfriend you were both seen out having drinks without her. She would consider that "behind her back." Keep it cool and distant, and warm up when his girlfriend is around.Be a nice lady, and don't send signals you're available.Nothing happened doesn't make it innocent. All you're really saying is, "nothing has happened yet!"
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (2 December 2013):
 He might be looking for a little on the side. If he can ONLY talk to you when clubs and alcohol is involved I would guess... He is up to no good.
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