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writes:So my boyfriend was very quiet, he didn't talk much over the weekend.That's very unlike him cause he's usually very chatty and makes me laugh so much to point where I'm always peeing hehe.I asked him why he'd been quiet he said he's not happy maybe he's just bored.He's rang me quite a lot today but my phone was on silent and put to charge in the living room.I rang him back and he's very upset that I've ignored his calls. He said he had a dream I'd slept with someone else.I'd never cheat on him, I'm not that kinda girl I was single for 2 years before I got with him.I love him so much but I don't think he trust me. I can't stop crying. He said he's busy and he'll call me back when he's free:(I'm 24 and he's 28 Reply to this Question
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (3 December 2013):
 Either he genuinely don't trust you or he has done something and portraying his guilt onto you? Don't cry cause no man is worth the pain and heartache , if he truly loved and cared for you, he would not hurt you.
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reader, M Proops +, writes (3 December 2013):
He sounds insecure.You better hope he doesn't start believing in his own dreams or he'll convince himself you really are cheatimg on him.Maybe he's looking for an excuse to break up with you.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (3 December 2013):
 Stop crying right now. You do not pay for his insecurity. His dreams are his problem, not yours. If he punishes you for a dream he has, then he's not for you, because that's borderline abusive and controlling.
Tell him to get over it or you'll find someone better than him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2013): Sounds weird. Maybe he's looking for an excuse to breakup?
Does your boyfriend suffer from depression? Is he on any kind of anxiety medication? An abrupt change in mood, sudden suspicion, or paranoia; might be a sign of a mental disorder, or drug-abuse.
Has he been using any recreational drugs in combination with excessive drinking? Hanging out with a new set of friends you don't know much about?
Leave him alone a few days. Send a short text asking how he's doing. Then drop by, and pay him an unexpected visit.
If you find a messy version of who he normally is. Then he may have depression. If he's messing around with another woman on the side, he's busted. If he's having family troubles, he ought to be glad to see you. You're his girlfriend. You have a right to just show up uninvited.
He leaves you no choice by ignoring you.
Don't give up on him. Everyone has their bad days. They will go away, if that's all it is.
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