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Archived questions from: 27 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Overwhelmed with grief at relationship breakup. Should I move out now? Or wait until I move shortly to another country?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

27 December 2013 (M)

- Hello everyone, Thank you for reading this, all advice is really appreciated! I will reply in the best way I can. My (ex)girlfriend was pregnant and we had a baby together. This was a total shock and we decided to stay together even though we were still in college. T... (233 words)

Problems from my past are affecting sex and love in the present!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - my man would like to have sex with lights on and be able to see me naked ,but I don't have any confidance in how I look I am 45 but am a size 10 ,but have issues from a rape yrs ago and in my marrage when I tried to spice things up in bedroom dept my husband just reinforced my ... (153 words)

We met, then nothing, then we met, had sex, and now again I hear nothing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi really hope someone can give me some good advice i met a man in july met up a few times had a few dates then i heard nothing for a month until a text saying he is in a awkward situation which he genuinely was we talked on Christmas eve and decided to make another go of ... (125 words)

My husband never seems to notice hot women.....EVER!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

27 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am in my 20s and my husband is great, perfect even. He takes me out, listens to be me, we have a great sex life, we hardly fight. It's wonderful. However.... I recently began to notice that he never seems to notice young attractive women. The other day ... (278 words)

What's the best advice on how to read men? I want to understand this man's intentions better

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

27 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I went out last night and bumped into a guy i dated for about a month 2 years ago. Just wondering if you could help me understand 2 little things. 1. Him, his friends and I were talking, I cant remember the conversation topic, but he said "you wouldn't like that as you... (209 words)

Is this a double standard? She did not like me using harsh words. So why is it OK for her to do the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

27 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - A few weeks ago me and my girlfriend were leaving a pub, and we were joking around, and then as we were talking I saw my coach there, and I accidentally let a word along the lines of go away but more harsh. It was a slip. She got really mad at me and was saying how she does... (194 words)

Ex-wife running my down to our kids and they're treating me disrespectfully

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 December 2013 (M)

age - I have been going through a tough time as of late I am married for a second time and my ex wife is married as well. Recently she started running me down to my two oldest kids my oldest daughter lives out of state and I talk to her as often as I can over cell phone or text my ... (308 words)

I've stopped chasing him and making myself available. Now what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

27 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice regarding my boyfriend, possibly ex. Anyway, we've been together 3 years. Up until a few months ago we'd see each other all the time but due to new work schedules we'd started seeing each other on the weekends and during the week if we got a chance, but it ... (558 words)

How do you know he really means it when he says he loves you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How do u know wen a guy is crazy about u and really means it wen he says he loves u? This guy has always been my crush. I've known him for a very long time like 9yrs n for once,he hasnt shown me he has interest in me until last month wen he told me he loved me and asked me to ... (216 words)

It's not so much what he did, it's that he lied about it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hey aunties and uncles... i am in a real tricky situation and just cant seem to make my own judgement or decision on what to do... I have recently been seeing a guy for the last 7 months and am planning to get married in November... we have known each other for about 10 years ... (511 words)

I wasnt a priority his life, so I broke up with him, did I do right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I hope someone can help me out and maybe guide me on a decision I made. I broke up with my boyfriend of about 4 months today and I guess I just need to see if people think I did the right thing as I know what I am like, I will do what I think is right then regre... (628 words)

I may have moved on too quickly, and I feel like I'm 'on call' for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

27 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in the strangest relationship situation I've ever been in, in my life. I am seeing a man who's nearly 20 years older than me, he's separated and has two kids. I've only been seeing him for about a month. I was in another long-term relationship but that finished, becaus... (694 words)

I'm still passionate for my wife, but she seems to have lost interest

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 December 2013 (M)

age - This may be an unusual request for advice. My wife and I have been together for the better part of 19 years. I am 62 she is 43. We were first married in 1995 and divorced in 2002. We were reunited in 2008 and remarried in 2010. We have both been married 5X including 2 marriages ... (360 words)

Does my ex still like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I got a text from my ex last night saying "I want you. I love you. ", and he said it was him texting me, and he was using his friend's phone. He has used his friends phone to text me before when he has no credit on his phone. I also got a text from his friend, who's phone it ... (164 words)

Do we break up now - with a wedding in vicinity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a habit of saying its not working anymore and lets break up which used to have a dramatic affect on my year old bf and he used to do everything possible to pacify me and drop the argument. However today he was done with me and said I am not taking this threat anymore and ... (177 words)

Would it be a mistake to get involved with him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy last August from an online dating website . We had an instant connection and had many fantastic dates. I didnt sleep with him immediately . He then disappeared without any contact for a week then i got a text saying sorry he was broke and depressed . Since then we ... (176 words)

My boyfriend wants to video chat but I'm nervous!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

27 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in long distance relationship since 1 and half year. I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend is 20. We talk on phone daily and we have seen each others pic.We are going to meet next year. My boyfriend wants to video chat with me on 31st December. I want to video chat too but I'm ... (189 words)

My married man loves me but can't be with me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

27 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Please bear with this long story. I am unmarried and in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. I recently moved to a different country and there I met a guy friend. We both are aware of our situation from the very beginning when we first met, that he is married and me ... (743 words)

Should I continue dating someone I know will leave within the year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating for 3 months a guy that i know is leaving in a year. He is military and he is only temporarily stationed here. I love spending time with him and we get along great. But he has told me time and time again that he doesn't believe in long distance. So in other ... (175 words)

Should my parents file for bankruptcy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

27 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this but just wanted to get some advice about my family. My parents (58 and 60 yrs old) are in a lot of debt. They have a business which has been losing money for a while and is putting them deeper in debt. We've talk... (250 words)

Things have cooled after three months of dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I am 25, and my bf is 23 years old. I am local and he's a foreigner in my country. We are together for almost 3 months, its only the 3rd month supposingly we are still in the honeymoon state but i realized we dont talk to each other that much anymore. whenever we ... (170 words)