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Archived questions from: 8 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My ex and his ex, how do we deal with them now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4030 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently ended a three-year long relationship because I realised that I no longer loved my partner (at least, not in a romantic way). A friend of mine also ended his relationship on the same day - I'll call him "Bob". It'd been pretty obvious over the few days before then... (618 words)

Do some people never move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, just wantedd to know is it possible to never move on from a relationship or does everyone move on eventually? What are your thoughts and experiences?... (31 words)

How to be not intimidated around this younger manager at work? Everyone else loves her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - How to be less intimidated or worry less about this person? I work with a much younger manager (early 20's) who is very good at her job, kind, nice to most, regarded as "sweet" by almost everyone, and is well liked, especially by the other managers and the boss, who is (fe... (525 words)

Girl on Facebook keeps flirting with my boyfriend. Do I ask him to block her, or tell her to back off?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - What should I do about these problems with my boyfriend and a woman on facebook?. My boyfriend has Bipolar Disorder. I don't know if that is matters, but I thought I would mention that. There was a woman who was on his friend's list on facebook a while ago. He deleted her a few ... (817 words)

Can we find a way to communicate our needs better or are we just too different from one another to make this work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure if anyone can help me with this. But my relationship is going downhill, and we don't know if there is anything we can do, or if we should break up. Things have been rough for a while now. We have a great time together, we laugh, we have fun, we do things together, ... (705 words)

I want him to make me his girlfriend but he still talks to other women on the dating site!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy on a dating site a few weeks ago. We've had a few amazing dates and ended up fooling around just a little (no actual sex though). I really like him and we have so much in common, we're so compatible and look great together. The problem is that I still see him ... (147 words)

We flirted for a while but I haven't heard from him in a week. Time to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So I like this guy at work, and I'm positive he likes me too. He's a little younger than me so I made the first move after a few months of working together. We kissed at work and he brought up hanging out outside of work. Well we texted a couple times after he left work that ... (148 words)

I know he's had bi experiences, so how do I talk him into a MMF?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a 43 year old female who had the great fortune of meeting the love of my life 2.5 years ago. We've both been around the block many times, and we're perfect for each other. Lots of sexual experience on both our parts. He's not very...how shall we say it- computer savvy? ... (417 words)

Examples of "if it's meant to be"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - You know the phrase "if it's meant to be, it's meant to be". Has anyone got any stories of anyone they thought the world of, stopped dating and then months or years later getting back together with them?... (39 words)

Which is more important in a partner: being physically attractive, or being good in bed?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a general question for everyone. Do you prefer a partner who is good looking but boring in bed, or a partner who is average looking but good in bed?... (31 words)

Should I tell my housemate that his girlfriend cheated on him?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I haven't known my housemate for a long time. Only about 3 months and he and his girlfriend have been together for about 7 months. This guy is a wonderful, decent and honest who absolutely adores her. Last night, I discovered from a mutual friend that his girlfri... (293 words)

What is a nice short message to send after a date for friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Say you go on a date and want to maintain a friendship with the person. What is a nice, short sweet message to send, expressing the following: You'd love to stay in touch as friends, without it seeming like you want more (you only see them platonically) and without seeming ... (87 words)

How do I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - What's the best way to ask out a shy guy? I talk to him every day and really like him. I asked him the other say if he wanted to go bowling and he said yes but he can't till after Christmas, however, that was just as friends I think. What should I do? We don't go to the same ... (107 words)

I'm not in a position to do anything about this crush, and I don't want to start obsessing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Over the last year or so, I became good friends with this girl I work with. We get along really well, but I don't see or talk to her often outside of work, or anything like that, though. I think I'm starting to "like" her a little more; actually, more than a friend should. ... (236 words)

I don't want drama that could poison our relationship around this pregnancy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi recently found out that I am about a month pregnant. I am considering abortion since, I am not married, still in school, with exams, thesis to write. I have been with my boyfriend for more than a year, but things are rocky. We broke up about 5 months ago, mainly because I ... (253 words)

How do I suggest improvements without making him feel bad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I asked my boyfriend to finger me the other night which I thought was reasonable because I've gone down on him a few times. It was his as well as my first time. I thought it would feel good, but it hurt a bit and I was bleeding. He went really fast, and kind of rough. I don't ... (172 words)

I bailed on him due to my insecurities, now he doesn't seem that interested

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts and uncles! Have a bit of dilemma! I started seeing a guy at the beginning of the year, after a week i wasn't sure about him , i guess i got a little nervous and i admit i am very insecure at times due to being treated badly in the past. so i panicked and bai... (518 words)

How Can I Get Her To Realize I'm The One For Her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This Girl is the most beautiful girl in the world, I really do care about her a lot actually, and I don't want no one but her, we are not officially dating but we are getting close and I am wondering if I am on the right path to pursuing this goal of making her my girlfriend. ... (355 words)

Can a guy be really sweet to you and yet not think of you when he's masturbating?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know this has been asked.... How can a guy open doors for you, pay for drinks, stare longingly into your eyes, drive you around, hug you and not think you about when masturbating? It hurts thinking about it. Is it because I'm not sexually attractive enough? He ... (90 words)

Boyfriend makes me out to be a nag...am I?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I've been seeing a guy for around 6 months. At around 5 months in, he mentioned he was looking to buy somewhere in future and live on his own or with his sister. I asked him about this as I thought if things worked out between us that we would live together. I... (753 words)

LDR: Should I just leave things the way that they are until we move to be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in this" ldr" with this guy for a year now. We came to a very clear and understandable conclusion as to how things would be from the very beginning. We try our best to try to stay out of each others personal lives to avoid jealousy fits and fights. He seems to be ... (165 words)

Is it bad to be straight to the point?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it bad to be straight to the point? From what I hear and what I see it feels like most of my friends have gotten into relationships by "Playing it cool" and a lot of the interactions is set out like a game. Its probably not done on purpose but I feel like a lot conversati... (219 words)

When I lose my erection, I can't get it back for days! Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship with someone and have been for 5 months. Everything has been great thus far, but we are starting to experience problems in the bedroom. Our sex is amazing. The best either of us have had. I have a great connection with my partner. However, whenever we are ... (455 words)

I have no clue as to how to get my boyfriend's motor running and wanting sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am not happy with the amount of sex my boyfriend and i have. I want it more than him, the problem is i am very insecure and have a hard time making the first move due to my fear of rejection. we dont currently live together we stay with friends so sex is kinda limited anyways ... (201 words)

Is my case of retroactive jealousy completely irrational?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

8 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. Ok, here it goes, I'll try to short down everything. I have relatively enough relationship experience in my past. Never had such RJ, even if it was the girl I fell for, and even if there was larger number of partners. Now it will be 1 year since my current GF (1... (1474 words)

Bipolar boyfriend invited to his birthday party then I got there and he was drunk and broke up with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - It's not that I want to ask a question. I just want someone to listen to how I feel, so I'm sorry if I go on. I just came back from my Bf's friends 21st Birthday houseparty, that he invited me to. I told him that I don't think I should come, so that he could spend more tim... (671 words)