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Archived questions from: 6 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Are there any people in relationships who have sex rarely and are HAPPY?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really curious about this...I've been hearing people talk about asexual relationships recently, and it gave me the idea to ask something a little less extreme. Are there any people who are in happy relationships, but they have sex infrequently and are still satisfied with ... (82 words)

My long distance guy seems distance since he learned I used to date my guy friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys/girls! Well I'm in need of help. So I'm struggling in this LDR. It's a very weird relationship b/c we've only Skyped, texted and rarely talk on the phone. He lives almost 5 hours away from me. So we've been trying to make things work but ever since I mentione... (602 words)

Wife of 10 years has put on weight. How can I motivate her to exercise?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

6 December 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been together for 10yrs. and she is putting on a fair amount of weight. I have tried to get her to exercise and move but it is very hard to get her motivated. Any suggestions?... (40 words)

Feeling guilty that I broke up with my boyfriend so close to Christmas!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend, of 3 years, yesterday. He'd been emotionally abandoning me for quite some time and we'd been having problems the last few months that we couldn't get past. I told him time and time again that I wouldn't keep "waiting" on him so yesterday, without ... (214 words)

I want to smell "manly" down below!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4033 days ago

6 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Believe it or not I am trying to find out how to make my balls and crotch area smell more musky. My g/f loves that kind of male scent but I don't really produce it very much. I'm not talking about being unwashed. More like a sexy, manly thing. Is there a cologne or something I ... (74 words)

Third date and he wants me to stay over ...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear aunties I am goibg on my third date tomorrow with a guy. First date we kissed, second date we also kissed but he said he had three pints so was not safe to drive. So I said he could stay on the sofa. Then inside he said he wanted to stay in my bed. I thought, maybe i... (230 words)

When dating, does it REALLY matter when you get intimate?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is mostly aimed at the men on here but women, feel free to give your opinion and experiences as well. I was wondering when dating and hoping to turn it into a relationship, does it really matter how soon the couple has sex? I have read articles that say that as a woman, ... (112 words)

Things are going well with this new guy but I don't know whether to tell him I have a boob job scheduled

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts, I've been seeing a guy for the last week and we seem to be getting on great and getting quite close. We're going on our third date Monday and already have our forth arranged. We speak everyday and I couldn't be happier right now. Only a small problem, a month ... (389 words)

I'd like to spend more time with him but I don't know how to go about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4033 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm friends with a guy I play sports with, we weren't close at all at first but we started talking and now it's a daily thing. We've bought each other Christmas presents and he's told me a fair bit of stuff about his family etc. which isn't normal for him. He's suggested things ... (104 words)

Is his advice coming from a friend or a crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone well I have a best friend he is a guy and we've known each other since elementary so he's been there for me for soooo long! I've always taken his opinion on anything and everything. But recently I've been feeling that maybe he sees me more than a best friend. ... (372 words)

I'm dreading my mother-in-law's visit!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dreading my mother in law coming from out of state to visit. I've been with husband for six years now and I'm still having issues with his mother. She's never got the chance to know me and has been very judge mental from the start always throwing her smart comments here and ... (390 words)

Am I horrible or justified because their relationship was dead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like a horrible person. I'm in such a mess. I had a bad break-up and I met a guy online who I poured my soul out to. He was married to a woman who he hated and she hated him. She verbally and sometimes physically abused him (throwing things at him, he had bruises.) ... (260 words)

I'm interested in relationship and not friendship, how do I show that to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

6 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have recently met a lovely girl and I seem to fancy her. She's studying same course as I'm but she joined this year. I have her number and hung out with her, made her laugh and everything seems to go nicely . We seem to get along pretty good. As I only can find time du... (175 words)

I want to know what this guy wants from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Two weeks ago I went to a thanksgiving dinner for my college organization club and met this guy there. He began talking to me first and took pictures with me and told me I was gorgeous and even got my number. I left and he texted me later on that night. We texted for a couple ... (326 words)

I'm down on my luck with the ladies, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

6 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I know Guys say let them come to you but that's not how it is with me, I am a guy who is down on his luck with the girls, I am such a player, I keep finding myself flirting with girls because deep down I'm really trying to find that right one, this has been going on for a year ... (372 words)

Does my Bf love me or is just using me? He refuses to stand up for me and he blames me when things go wrong.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Everybody, why is he behaving this way? Half year ago a guy fell in love with me. He fought extremly hard to get me be with him. He behaved as a gentleman, bought me flowers, surprised me all the time, always called me up - asked how I am, helped me in my studies,... (770 words)

How do I start courting a girl I am really interested in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

6 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a male student. i am already 20 years old. i have not been into relationship and i've just met a girl, a classmate of mine..i want to court her and i don't know how to start. It's like it is hard for me because it's my first time to enter a relationship but i think i'... (93 words)

I don't want to share! I am very drawn to her, but she's married. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm a lesbian. Recently a woman on a dating site messaged me. She seems very lovely as she is beautiful, smart, funny and we have a lot in common. The problem is, she's married to a man. It sounds like they have an open relationship deal or he is at least cool with her goin... (225 words)

Am I really a horrible selfish person? My mother makes me feel like that. Or is the problem my mother's moods?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 21 yr old female still living at home with my mother, maternal grandmother, younger brother and cat. On good days I can deal with my mother. She jokes around and she's calm. But on bad days she's easily set off, moody, stubborn. Today is a bad day. My grandmother ... (513 words)

Way back then, on the way to school, I was bullied. I still resent that my parents didn't do enough to stop the bullying. What can I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Becoming a parent has made me think about this a lot. My parents live next to a primary school. They used to make me walk to school. Nobody does this any more. even if you live close. So I was an easy target. These two brothers would verbally abuse me everyday because I ha... (154 words)

Am I being too clingy? Did we rush into this too soon? I get jealous and possessive and he's often unavailable, to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to someone for the past 4 months and I met him online. It was a day after my ex blocked me out if his life. I had told this current guy, "X", how distraught I was after what this guy did to me. He complimented me so much about how pretty I look. I always s... (337 words)

Why would a mother neglect her child and call them names?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear helpers, I have a story to tell and questions to ask and I have no idea where to start. My problem is I never felt loved by my mother and I have no idea why. Let me explain this. I am not some teenager complaining about parents' ways. I am a mature young women ... (1146 words)

Did he mean he was going to ask me out on a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

6 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently started working at a movie theatre a month ago and I think one of my coworkers, Michael is extremely cute. We rarely work together and when we do we always flirt with each other and ask each other questions about one another. I recently went out with someone on ... (251 words)