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Archived questions from: 16 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Given his history is it unreasonable to tell him not to go to the stag party?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

16 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Am I being unreasonable? My boyfriend of 19 months is best man at his best friend's wedding next year . I said he shouldn't go on his stag doo because on past ones my boyfriend went on he went with three different prostitutes when they all went to Prague his friends also too... (106 words)

How do I tell him that I don't love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

16 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I are very close. We dated for almost two years in college and have both been with other people afterwards. We recently started seeing each other again, I was under the impression that it would be a casual relationship and have told him that I'm ok with him ... (296 words)

Met a girl, suddenly she's super cold towards me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

16 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl would a month ago through some mutual friends. We talked for a bit and exchanged numbers. We started texting daily and I began the long study period for my law school exams, so my social life became nonexistent. After about two weeks or so, she started getting ... (410 words)

How can I build trust and meet new people after being lied to

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

16 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - It's been a few months since I've been on here and really appreciated the mass of advice I got last time. After months of secrecy and lies about who she was meeting and speaking to I plucked up the courage and dumped here. Her excuse being that she saw me as more of a friend. ... (118 words)

Even though I'd never do anything about it, is this attraction wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

16 December 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I am in high school and I play football. Since it is a high school football team, we have players from 9th grade to 12th grade. I am friends with a lot of the players in all grades. The problem is that I am beginning to be attracted to one of the freshman players. I am f... (220 words)

Do I reply to his lovely response?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

16 December 2013 (F)

age - Hello aunties and uncles I was friends with a man for over 5 years, he's 3 years younger than me.. During the first 6 months we had a fling, and then we became just friends. I fell in love with him and all the way through our friendship I yearned for a us to have a relations... (431 words)

Did I scare him off and how do I fix this mess?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

16 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I may have scared off a guy I like. Here is the background on this: he lives in my building and had told a mutual friend of ours that he liked me. We’ve been casually running into each other a few times per month, and I had no idea the guy liked me. One night, before I ... (549 words)

He wants to split EVERY expense we incur as a couple and it's causing problems in our relationship

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

16 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Help needed!! My boyfriend of 6 months ls all for equality to the point that it makes me miserable. Before anyone says that I probably like when guys pay for me, let me give you a little background. We both young professionals , I am 5 years after college, heis 8. We b... (965 words)

Girlfriend of 8 months forgot my birthday! How do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

16 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - We've been together for close to 8 months now and she forgot my birthday. Today the 16th of december is my birthday. Although we've talked about how to celebrate it all week last week, I havent heard from her all day. She had an exam today but she finished it a while ago and I ... (89 words)

I don't want sex with my girlfriend to be boring for her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

16 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I try to mix things up sexually with my gf but new things don't seem to work. I try to give oral sex but once she finishes from that she doesn't want to continue. Same every time she orgasms, she cannot continue. I don't mind this and am happy that she finishes but I want to ... (191 words)

Single and sexually frustrated. How can I overcome this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

16 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am one sexually frustrated woman and don't know what to do! I would only want to sleep with someone if I really care for them or love them. I am not up for casual sex at all as I don't get anything from it. How do girls overcome this? I'm 22 and have been out of my very s... (226 words)

His weird behaviour makes me curious!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

16 December 2013 (?) age 41-50 - 2 Weeks ago I met someone through a common friend. Lets just call him G. G is a good looking guy, kind and always a gentleman almost to everyone. He never failed to say hi or message me almost everyday. So I always thought of him as a friendly guy. Then my friend T, ... (393 words)

I feel awful, mostly to put her through this but I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

16 December 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 28 years old and am recently married. Believe it or not, I was a virgin until I got married. I live in India where some families are conservative and my parents always told me that physical intimacy is ok with only a life partner. They didn't force it on me but I thought... (386 words)

I feel like one in a long line of women!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

16 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me I am screwing myself up and my relationship. I am 34 and boyfriend is 45. We have been together for a very happy 18 months and living together for one year. He is the best boyfriend I have ever had but I am so close to losing him cause of my obsession with h... (417 words)

She said they only marry their own ........

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

16 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Some of you have read part of my story but this is a continuation. I have dated my boyfriend for 7-1/2 years who is divorced with two grown up kids. I am 26 and he's 40. Furthermore we are not from the same culture he is Armenian and im hispanic. He says he loves me and overall ... (414 words)

Why does this get to me so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

16 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm worried and don't know who to turn to for help. I am in love with a lovely, caring sensitive man. I think the world of him, he is everything I dreamed of yet there are these insistent doubts. I have suffered many abusive relationships, survived and become stronger. I never ... (536 words)

My boyfriend is still friends with a woman he had sex with. Do I have the right to tell him not to stay friends?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

16 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship for over a year woth my boyfriend and we just had a disagreement because he recently told me about a women he slept with and still friends with. He says that she has always been their for him and has been a good friend. I just don't know if I ... (86 words)

4.5 months after the break up and still struggling to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3485 days ago

16 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been 4.5 months since my boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me. He's my first bf. My life's back to normal, I've been meeting new people, got a new hobby and loving it, going out with friends and having fun. I know I don't love him anymore, but from time to time, I ... (629 words)

Is this creepy or flattering?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

16 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, everyone. So, I'm having a problem with this guy that I just met. He's a very sweet guy, but sometimes the things he says are just plain overboard! I gave him my number and we started talking. But, he came right out and said that he liked me a lot, but then he started ... (309 words)

Help, how can I fulfill my sexual urges without losing my self respect?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

16 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if you have heard of the relationship advice book 'the rules' but if you have you will understand when I say I'm a strict rules girl. I've been out of my healthy, good relationship for 5 months now, we split due to being busy building my own business. I'm cur... (324 words)

My neighbour doesn't recognise boundaries!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4023 days ago

16 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Background: I live in Government Assisted Housing and there is a girl in the building whom I consider a semi-friend. It is only semi-friend because while we have hung out a few times, I really have a hard time liking her and really wanting to be around her a lot. It was ... (1249 words)

I don't want to lose my friends but don't want to lose the chance of getting my ex back either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

16 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, I have had a pretty rough year, And now I'm in an even more messed up situation. Back at the start of the year i resigned from a job i hated doing to pursue some study and get into a real job i enjoy (Which i can now say has happened an i love my job) but d... (533 words)