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Archived questions from: 24 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

A thank you to the aunts and uncles...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so not a question, but I just wanted to wish everyone here at DC a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! I've had some great advice from you all this year and I know so many others have too - the time and effort you all put in really is amazing and so appreciated. ... (74 words)

He could be selfish and just a bit controlling .....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I'm in need of some advice on a man I'm in a relationship with. We have only been together officially for just over a month and were dating only just under a month before then. We fell for each other pretty quickly and have told each other we love each other. However I'm a ... (364 words)

What's the perfect formula for when to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Does it matter when u have sex with a man will he think less of u if u give it up too early or too late? What's the perfect formula if there is one? I am a quote in quite "pretty girl and highly educated". I've never had a tough time getting dates but I grew up in strict ... (235 words)

Should I worry that he has stopped texting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have spent a total of 19 days with my current guy I'm seeing we have been together for 3 months and known each other for 4 I know I love him he says he loves me, he was the first to romanicly take me in his arms and tell me in my ear I know it's not fake. but he hasn't ... (358 words)

He says he cares for me, but doesn't love me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I are both 17 and we've been dating for two months. We were hook up bbuddies for about a month before that though, with me being used as a rebound, and me using him cause I was horny. After we had sex (he was a virgin, I was not) we started to date. I know he ... (283 words)

26 never had a boyfriend, no confidence.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I'm 26, I've never had a boyfriend, I've never been kissed or even been on a date. I was always very popular when I was little but we moved away from my home. People started bullying me and I lost all my confidence. I was called ugly and fat , I wasn't when I was little ... (149 words)

Is he just in this for the sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

24 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys. So I met this guy Mark a while ago via my next door neighbor Andrea (we were hanging out once and she invited him). The night I met him we were really into each other and I ended up going home with him. My neighbor made him promise that he wouldn't sleep with me ... (547 words)

I'm afraid that when my girlfriend does overcome her abusive ex she'll be attracted to his type again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

24 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - We've been together a year now and in our mid-twenties. She was raised very strict and about 8 months before I met her ended a 2 year relationship with your typical "bad boy" who treated her horribly, pretty much abuse from what I know. I mention this bc she's always bee... (447 words)

My friend gets out of prison in 7 weeks and wants me in his life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

24 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! I am very very confused I have a friend and he's in prison. He has been there for me in the past and I consider him a very good friend and a special person although he has done some major wrong things in his life. We have given each other support in the past. He recent... (243 words)

I don't want to be alone anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - If I'm trying to find my first g/f, or in general first date, etc... What places should I go, library, book store, when I'm at the park on a walk? I'm feeling out of options here, I just don't really want to be alone anymore. If anyone has anything to share please, I'm open to ... (57 words)

His dislike of me makes me uncomfortable with my group of friends.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - my friendship group has recentally broken down with lots of different people involved in individual fights. during this time i have been dealing with issues with work and my ex so i have spent that much time around it all. however a few weeks ago, while at a party i overheard ... (218 words)

What's the deal with this crazy girl and how to I get her to stop if I can't prove anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - A few months ago, I met a girl at my step-dad's church function and we hit it off really well and decided to go to dinner at another time. Her phone was shut off, so she just told me where she lived and said that she was sorry she couldn't let me in because the building only ... (1090 words)

I think our friends daughter who is 9 is stealing from us and I'm not sure the best way to deal with it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I think our friends daughter- who is 9 is stealing from us and I'm not sure the best way to deal with it... Over the year I have noticed that after they visit, small things go missing from our house. At the beginning of the year I noticed that some of my button collection ... (463 words)

Is it best to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I need relationship advice, please. I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 yrs, we've had our ups and downs just like any other couple but I've noticed that we aren't close enough like I see other couples act. We see each other at least once a week not more than 3 times or... (258 words)

Why do girls seem to prefer, and date, the guys who are cocky, arrogant, stubborn jock types?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Why oh why do girls prefer the cocky, arrogant, stubborn jock types? Is it because they assume their children together will be born with a lightning bolt in their hands? Girls have done pretty skewed ways of finding guys thinking that they are better off with them then some... (111 words)

She kept looking, but didn't return my smile. Was she was interested and should I try to find her again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I have noticed this very good looking girl on the underground a few times. So the last time I managed to sit almost opposite her on a full train. She definitely kept looking at me every few minutes, looking away a few seconds after I caught her glance. The thing is that ... (152 words)

How do I tell him without hurting him? I like my own space and some time to be alone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys just have a short and simple question for everyone here... i just want a different opinion and hopefully it will help me sort things out in my head... I have been with this guy for around 7 months and yesterday his family came round for a family dinner.. things a... (219 words)

BF of 4 years. Our sex life was phenomenal. So why is he now choosing Porn over me? I need advice please

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

24 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and we have been living together for the past year and a half. Up until two months ago our sex life was phenomenal; we would have sex almost every day, and sometimes more than once. However we suddenly entered a rough patch in our r... (418 words)