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Archived questions from: 12 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend wont take things to the next level, how long do I wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend were together for ten months, we were both happy together, till his wife he was seperated from started, she said she would take him back as soon as i was gone. Well as soon as i was gone she left . We have been talking dating sleeping together for the past ... (188 words)

My boyfriend said he would feel uncomfortable around my gay friend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months now and I want him to meet my friends. He hasn't met them already yet as there hasn't been an opportunity for him to. So I asked him the other day if he would like to come and watch one of my friends perform at his gig with me and ... (158 words)

Help, I'm being bullied into unemployment.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3991 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm being pushed out of my job and I desperately need some advice. Now normally, I would never take the treatment I've received. I would never let anyone walk over me as my employers have done. But in the past, if I've been treated terribly, I've been able to leave and fin... (1095 words)

I feel like more of a sulky teen than an adult!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3990 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, hope you can help am living with my boyfriend and we are really happy things are going great, am in danger of sounding like a spoilt brat so please bear with me... my boyfriends ex (a girl he really liked who he dated for a while) is due to have a part in my favourite ... (186 words)

Four weeks later, has he lost interest already?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there I met a guy online we met and instantly hit it off... had a great time met at my local... saw him once a week since then so had x4 dates... he used to text me everyday or send a late goodnite sms too the sms have stopped... I did send him a sms saying hi how are you? ... (110 words)

I need help with my monster in laws!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry this may be a long one! But I need help! Potential monster in laws. Hi I need some help with my in laws, my boyfriend of 3 years is their only child and I feel like they resent me for taking him away, because he's very busy with work and chooses to spend his spare ... (848 words)

I feel unwanted and our relationship feels broken!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my boyfriend for a year. We recently had a one week break as we were arguing a lot. We are now back together but I feel Im treading on egg shells and cant be myself. He hasnt said he loves me and I said I was worried things arent right between us as he seems less ... (168 words)

At a crossroads, getting divorced, not a US citizen, with no friends or family in Europe

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age - I am in a process of a divorce and I am leaving to Europe. I was marriaged for 15 years to an american and now we decided to split up. I dont have anyone in the USA,only my husband´s friends and family which are not that much of my friends and family anyway. His sibblings were ... (230 words)

I am feeling suffocated!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a guy for just over a year and, by and large, am very happy. I have a young son (single parent), and he is now in full-time education which is great. I am a single parent and get one weekend off a month, when my son spends time with his father. The guy ... (397 words)

Would you share your resume with a coworker?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - A coworker of mine who I talk to frequently was promoted to my previous position couple of months ago. Although we are in the same building, I also got promoted and work on another floor. I have helped her across the way when she emails me with various questions concerni... (212 words)

I'm afraid he's forgotten my birthday..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My birthday is today. I've been dating a man for 7 months. He knows when my birthday is and we've already celebrated his birthday in August. He has a VERY demanding job and is currently out of the country working. He emailed me last night and told me that he had just ... (152 words)

I want a relationship but my past makes me too afraid

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm afraid of being in relationships. And I'm now at an age where I think I should have gotten past this already. Please bear with me because I'm going to tell you stuff I haven't discussed with anyone, ever. My self esteem has been low from a young age. I was badly bullie... (418 words)

I'm so scared that this 4 week break so early on in our relationship is going to ruin us.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing my boyf since the summer and been official for the last 2 months. Everything is going great. So far he seems my perfect man and I'm so happy. But here's the thing, last week he went home for xmas, he'll be gone 3-4 weeks. He's staying so long because his father ... (256 words)

She is always in the same clothes! I'm getting fed up!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

12 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in an relationship for 8minths going strong but I am getting fed up about certain things. My girlfriend lives with her mum and doesn't have much money. She has two outfits, and all she has worn since we been together. I offered to buy some and she refuses to a... (216 words)

Is this a new type of double standard?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

12 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I hear quite often that when a girl meets boy in a bar or other way, and she says she only wants cuddling etc. and no sex, it is a deal breaker and he leaves. Of course I am not talking about having a long term relationship. What about if the shoe is on the other foot and it's ... (225 words)

Is there a way to platonically get to know my crush more, or does he already assume that I'm interested in more than that? Also, what should I do about the current situation with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with a guy for about 2 years, and we've been best friends for 3 or 4 years prior to that. We get along great for the most part, and it's really hard to picture what my life would be like without him since we know each other so well. However, I've ... (795 words)

Long term relationship and no engagement!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice on what I should do with my dating situation. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 7 1/2 years, He is 40 years old now and i am 26, he was married before and has two boys one's 18 years old and the other 16. I tell my boyfriend that i want to get married, i ... (158 words)

Do you think she knows my intention? What should I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3994 days ago

12 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello guys, There is this girl in my class that I like and I've developed the courage to walk up to her one day and talk to her. The first time I spoke to her I made small talk with her about the class we are in together. The second time time we spoke about how short the cl... (260 words)

My Gf's phone background is a picture of a half naked guy. How can I deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

12 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm kind of disgusted and mad that my girlfriend has a picture of a half naked guy... with a puppy on her phone... The thing is, I see her on the phone all the time. It annoys me and I said something and she was like well you had a girl on your phone so now were even.. and I di... (124 words)

Should I change my look to attract a better man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - What am I doing wrong in dating? I want to preface by saying that I was in an emotionally and verbally abusive relationship for five years until I walked away. A big reason why I walked away was because after enough was enough I also fell for someone in my graduate thesis ... (406 words)

Why is this guy seeing me if he's had better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

12 December 2013 (F) age 36-40 - I'm having a childish issue. I'm seeing a new guy. We were friends before we started dating... I actually saw him as a friend, well, for all the time he was trying to win me over (which was MONTHS), and I actually started things out with him as a "no strings attached" deal - ... (707 words)

My girlfriend's job and her smoking are jeopardizing our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

12 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for little under a year and we get along really well. There are two unfortunate issues that arise that cause all of our problems. These are two things that bug me and make me question how much she actually respects me and our relationship. ... (734 words)

I want to tell my LDR that my best friend is a guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3985 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone ! Well I've been talking to someone for 5 months now and I'm not sure if I should tell him about my best friend which is a guy. I'm wondering if it's too late to let him know or not ? I like this guy "X" a lot and I've never mentioned my best friend to him b... (367 words)

My boyfriend seldom expresses affection for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3994 days ago

12 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - We've been together for 7 months. I've had boyfriends before him but I'm his first girlfriend, first kiss, first girl he's ever said "I love you" to, etc. He is a caring and laid-back guy but he doesn't show affection for me very often. We had a talk about it one time and he s... (504 words)