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Archived questions from: 19 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Did she lost her virginity to a dildo?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

19 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have not too much experience with girls, Ive been dating this girl for a while. We dated and we had oral but not nothing further. then after a few dates later she finally decided to have sex with me. Not long ago she told me she bought online a dildo to try a few years ago. ... (122 words)

My boyfriend is afraid of getting me pregnant so he wont have sex with me, what to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

19 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So me and my boyfriend have been together for four months now, and he barely has sex with me anymore, nowadays most of the time when we're having sex it starts with me practically raping him. I had a fear of getting pregnant, but when I found my boyfriend I lost that fear ... (184 words)

How do I get myself back into talking to girls again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

19 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there everyone, I have a problem and this I have never faced before and yes I can't understand what to do about it so I'm need of sone some immediate help.. So it goes like this, I had fallen for a girl and a she was a great girl! We stayed together for quite long but t... (158 words)

Likes me but ignores me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4011 days ago

19 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - This girl i've been dating told me last week she really liked me, but promised herself she didn't want to get attached to anyone this year because she's been hurt. She said however she still wanted to hangout but just be friends for now and see where things go. After we went ... (166 words)

My boyfriend lied about going on holiday ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

19 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I need a bit of help my boyfriend has recently to me he going on holiday to tenireffe with his friend. But the day he booked it he told me he was going to his sisters and it wasn't until five days later in an argument he told me where he was really going. I really don't ... (129 words)

Has anyone used a 'safe' option to reclaim self-esteem and then dumped 'safe' for 'hot'?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

19 December 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, Have any of you ladies on here suffered with some depression, low self esteem and insecurities to the point that while seeing a hot man, you can't enjoy it for the endless worrying that he will dump you for someone better? So, you end up dumping them for the fear tha... (190 words)

Still sleeping with my ex but don't feel guilty for sleeping with others as well

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

19 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi- I'm currently single, but i'm still sleeping with and hanging out with my ex-boyfriend. We act very much as a couple, and still say I love you to each other, but we ended the relationship for good reasons, hence we are hesitant about rushing back into one. It seems pretty s... (364 words)

I told him how I felt and he confirmed he didn't feel the same -- what now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I told a guy how I feel about him over facebook. I told him all the things I admire about his character and how I wish he strives well next year in university (he'll be about 600 miles away). I knew how he felt (or didn't feel about me) but it hurt when he confirmed it anyway. ... (245 words)

He says his use of gay sex sites is an addiction

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm engaged to this really wonderful man. We've been in a relationship for 2 years and counting. We hit off really well as a couple and have had really good times together. The problem started when I discovered that he had online sex chats with random men and was having video ... (364 words)

I'm jealous over his pictures of female celebrities

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

19 December 2013 (?) age 30-35 - hi, advice please. i'm 19 and gay. i'm with a 44 yr old guy (dont judge) for a couple of months now. i love him and he says he loves me, i've loved him since i was 14. he split with his long term girlfriend 3 months back, i took a chance, he responded favourably and now we have ... (181 words)

Would you say it is rude to ask visitors to take their shoes off before entering your home?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

19 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Would you say it is rude to ask visitors to take their shoes off before entering your home? I have a small wooden sign hanging up in my hallway saying "Please remove your shoes," and am wondering if this may appear rude. I wouldn't throw a tantrum if someone refused, and if ... (88 words)

Does This Happen To All Teenage Guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4020 days ago

19 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Why is it that every time i am with a Beautiful Girl who is Sexually Attractive i always seem to pre-ejaculate in my pants, its happened in the past a lot, will it ever stop? im 19 years of age and today it happened while i was talking to this girl in some short shorts, and ... (107 words)

Cute Girl Who I Got An Amazing Feeling About!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4020 days ago

19 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Too make a long story short, There is this girl who i met today in class and she is very pretty we talked the whole time we were in the class together, me and her have a past she complimented my good looks before but i was a stud and didn't pay her much attention, but really i ... (325 words)

Should I get my boyfriend's mom a gift for Christmas?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

19 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my bf for 3 months we get along great. I have said hello/seen his mom several times on skype, since she lives overseas. For Christmas my bf will be going to see her, should I buy her Christmas gift?? Would this be a nice detail or weired since we have never met ... (80 words)