I wasn't a rebound but how do I move on, he's gone back to his ex after 3 years!

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Me and my ex was together for three years then out if the blue last November he finished with me I know he was depressed because his ex before me left him in twelve grand of debt and when he finished with her she wouldn't pay half and didn't have a job so he took it on , he met me when he was splitting up with her we were only friends and I said wAit a month til it's over with her , she used to ring me and him with abuse and his family my ex used to say he hated her and that he just stayed as long as he did as she had a child by another man and he'd grew up bonding with her , well November he was made redundant and went really depressed but wouldn't see a doctor and pushed me away we was saving to move in together and was even tLking about starting a family were both 28 before all this then , he finished with me telling me he didn't love me anymore I was devastated but I thought he's pushing me away so we still spoke friendly on texts then last night I found out by his best friend that he's back with his ex who lied s out being pregnant left him in all that debt and who him and his family couldn't stand I just really don't get it and I think because its so strange he's gone back to her I can't move on , it's not like i was a rebound as he split with her and we were together for three years , thanks for reading x

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