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female
age
26-29,
*rawleys
writes:Most of the time, my thoughts flow at a very fast pace and then, when i want to express myself, i can't. At least not with the same exactitude as it were in my mind. And what happens when i realize that i am not expressing myself like i wanted? I get frustrated and it gets even worse because i have so much will to voice what i exactly think. The thing is, all my teachers, that i had so far, and my family say that i have an impressive panel of vocabulary, that i tend to express myself with more maturity than someone of my age and that i'm well spoken...Maybe that's why i like to write. It's just the easiest way to express myself.So i don't know if i'm the only one to have this "issue". I might should have a more laid back attitude toward my thoughts and etc. Any advices? P.s: My bad if there's some grammar faults, i'm french :)
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reader, 1busybee  +, writes (22 September 2012):
Of course the written word is far more powerful that our own flawed and or scattered thought processes. We have Dictionary.Com and Thesaurus to pull words from. We can cut and paste and move stuff around. Expect that it is the same for all creatures. Relax. Stop being so critical of yourself or trying to be too intellectual. Enjoy spoken conversation. Keep it light when you want to. It is about control. You are in charge of what comes out of your mouth remember that. You can say any thing you want! Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2012): Yes I experience this too. I don't know exactly why it happens, but I put it down to being overly keen or too eager to get my point across as clearly and effectively as possible, and when actually saying it, I rush and make mistakes lol. Maybe because you/we don't rehearse what it is we're wanting to say before we say it, and it comes out wrong or something.
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