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writes:Alright guys, im having a huge dellima...I met this guy through my cousin, and it seemd like a good idea. We atrted texting, we met once but it was brief, and i knew there was just something about him. I thouhgt about him off and all, and he finally got my number. So we started texting, and we talked for a week before we hung out. It went well i thought, we were talking laughing, and later in the night held hands. And he told me he liked me and wanted it to go further, but he had problems from past relationshiops he needed tow ork out. and im a vary impatient girl... So we hung out the next day, it was fun, we flirted and all and he showed that he wanted me, well later that night things got touchy feely... and the next day things seemed akward... so i text him and he said he wanted to take it slow but that wasnt a big deal... And slowly he started not texting me... A few here and there but then... nothng... and things were looking up, we got over our first bunmp in the road.. so i text him off of my grandmas phone, and what happens? he texts back immediatly... so i may have gone off, but i apologized later.. i thought it was just madatory to not ignroe someone for a day... So what could this mean? Does he have any feelings for me? or is he just scared of getting hurt? is there anything i can say to get him to talk to me again?? and giving up just isnt in my vocabualary, ecspecially since i really like him.. so any info that will help me talk to him or vise versa would be great! thanks!!!Kaiti
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 September 2012):
 that's code for "i am not as into you as you want me to be"
sweetie... he's not interested...
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reader, kaiti30 +, writes (21 September 2012):
kaiti30 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well, he finally texted me last ngiht syaing he needed time, then said he wasnt a dependable guy right now and that he hated ignoreing me... wtf does that mean? hes not dependable?? andif he hated doing it... why is he??
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reader, lmao1989  +, writes (18 September 2012):
 Try to tone it down a little with him if he wants to take it slow then go slow with him don't try to pressure him into something more if he's a bit afraid of getting hurt.I appreciate you're not a patient girl but if you want this relationship to work and have a future then you're going to need to learn to be a bit patient. He's clearly got something from his past in which he isn't ready to talk about yet maybe when he ready and he tells you you'll understand. Maybe if you text him just saying if he need's to talk about anything that's on his mind that he can talk to you maybe it'll make him feel more at ease and you'll get to understand hopefully and become closer with him.Anyways i hope this helps and i wish you all the best.
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