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writes:I ask this because my friends kind of kept bothering me XD and I am also nervous. You see, I finally told this guy I had a crush on him. He's very shy and quiet, rarely talks, always sleeping and yet he maintains a 4.0 ....he's very intelligent and nice and artistic(some of the things I like about him :3). So when I told him I had a crush on him he started smiling like looking at me and smiling, not really saying much -_- then one of my friends came and tried to de-rail things between him and me but at that point I scootched over next to him (while standing), and I asked him if I could get to know him better and he smiled and looked away and said "....sure," and it went uphill from there until I got this other person intervened again and tried to turn him against me again and then we had to go to class...I told my friend about his reactions when I told him he liked me and she was like ".....so that makes you think he likes you?" And I'm like O_O well, doesn't it......?Note like when I told him I had a crush on him no one was there to disturb and he looked at me(with those pretty brown eyes XD) and smiled(the smile looked genuine to me, kind of like an "really? Sweet!" smile lol) but the magical moment was detered when the person who claims to be my friend came in to warn him against spending time with me.....and that's when it was like whooo awkward. And previously, last year, my crush actually, I would catch him staring at me a lot and when I looked up he looked down but not all the time though, and all of these things kind of stopped this year. Hopefully it changed with my confession. So I mean could that mean he likes me? I know, dumb question, because he did say sure. I ask because he's super shy, and I mean like what should I expect now that I've told him I liked him since he's shy and quiet. Is there anything I should know about a shy guy so that if something is done I won't be discouraged? Oh! And, here's another intriguing thing about him(maybe this will give you an idea of how shy he is) I asked him how old he was and he didn't answer, and I said "you don't like talking about your age?" And he shook his head and I was playin with him I was like "can I guess?" And he shook his head again. So I left it alone and told him you don't have to tell me if you don't want to. Hope that helps with your answers for meModnote: original poster used slang words that might not be understood by everyone. The meanings from Urban Dictionary used instead to explain the words used - to explain another person warning off one person from forming a relationship with another person - often with malicious or exaggerated remarks that may or may not be true. The intervention designed to try to block the relationship from forming.
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reader, Abella +, writes (18 September 2012):
 He may or may not like you.
he is shy, and lacks confidence perhaps? I think he was intrigued. But he may lack confidence to ask you out. Keep on being nice to you.
But it is always a better idea to let the guy iniitate things so that he thinks it is his idea.
Rather than you take all the fun out of the chase by telling him you have a crush on him.
Please DITCH that so called friend. Who does she think she is to spread lies? I would AVOID her like the plague. She is seriously bad news. Keep your distance from her. Give her no amunition to use to spread as lies.
She is NO friend of yours. How dare she do what she did.
Distance yourself from her.
Let him know that you are not friends any more.
And as you did not do the things she claimed then all you have to do is behave respectfully and be pleasant to others. Over time (next 6 months?) the other girl spreading this rubbish will be exposed as a liar.
She really has it in for you? She must be unbelievably jealous and insecure. My guess is that you are way prettier than she will ever be.
Keep on smiling his way when you see him.
Since you have told him about your crush the next move is entirely his. Keep on smiling his way.
If he is smart enough he will find time to talk with you in the future. Despite the rubbish she is saying.
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