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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Can't get ex brother-in-law out of my mind! I'm going to try and make a long story short! I'm still attracted to and in love with my ex brother in law and I can't get him out of my mind! It's driving me crazy! We has sex one time, and use to spend a lot of time together with our kids. Perfect husband and father. My husband divorced me and was in the process of leaving me when we had the affair. My ex husband's sister is still married to my ex brother in law, despite the affair. Worst part is, I've remarried and have 2 children from this marriage and 2 from my last. Yet I still think of him daily despite the fact that we have had no contact for 7 years. Do I need to seek professional help!? I really want to speak with him, but I know I shouldn't and I'm not sure he would speak to me. What should I do?
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reader, idoneitagain  +, writes (25 October 2012):
It is not a question of needing to seek professional help, its more a case of professional help being one of many options that you could use to work through a problem. I think it would be a good idea. You have a problem that you haven't been able to work through on your own, for the last 7 years, and you don't know what you should do. If you seek professional help, they will probably be helpful in you working through the problem. It costs money, but it might really be worth it. There are other options, such as being able to communicate directly with him to help you work through the problem, but this might not be possible and it might not be a good idea even.
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