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writes:I split up with my boyfriend after a year together. He said we should just be friends and that he feels we rushed things as we both had marriage in our minds. He feels we have nothing in common and that we arent compatible. However, he says he does like me and is attracted to me still and we should be friends and maybe if it works out between us naturally we can give it a go, but if I meet someone else in the meantime I shouldnt let him stop me from pursuing it.He also says he enjoys spending time with me and he wants to continue doing so. 'nothing has changed except the context' he feels we havent gotten to know each other properly and we both dont feel comfortable with each other as much as we should by now.My question is: Do I keep hoping we will reconcile or give up and truly believe he doesnt want to try again as he is inferring?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2012): Set your sights higher and by that I mean not on him. If after a year he is saying you have nothing in common...believe him and move on. Sounds like he is trying to end things as nicely as he can. Don't wait and hope. Good luck.
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