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male
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36-40,
*harger
writes: So in camping with a lot of people and this 18 year old girl really likes my cousin and has told her friend that she is gonna try something tonight with him. He just got married a few months ago and has a kid on the way. That girl knows he's married. His wife is not here. I've already told him she likes him and he says nothing will happen but he has taken her on rides his dirt bike and let's her sit on his lap. What should I do? And if something does happen should I tell his wife? I'm against cheating btw
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (27 May 2012):
Why couldn't he bring along his wife? Being pregnant doesn't mean you're disabled.
There's nothing you can do. The 18 year old doesn't care that he's married, and your newlywed cousin doesn't seem to be respecting his wife by encouraging this girl.
Personally, I wouldn't say anything. It's none of your business, really. Even if you got involved and told his wife, then it would cause a rift between you and your cousin. Essentially extending into the family, making family reunions and Christmas dinners a disaster. Think of the long term damage you could cause if you choose to get in his business.
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