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writes:On another note, Im a junior and my ex is a college freshman. Me and my ex were together for 2 years and 4 months. I broke it off and went with some other guy out of revenge for the way he treated me in the relationship. He would always be smoking weed or drinking and wouldn't let me talk to my guy friends who I had known for seven years. It wasn't until October when he told me not to hang out with my friends who are girls when they invited me to go eat. I broke it off and a week later started to talk to this other guy because I wanted revenge against my ex. All the way until January, my ex tried getting me back until my mom blocked his number. I kept thinking to myself that he deserved it for the way I was treated by him, until in may, I realized that I really did love him and I was being a child and lost the one person who meant a lot to me. I broke up with the other guy a month ago and apologized to my ex, which he forgave me. This Friday, we both are going to loose our virginities to each other. I want to because I wanted him to be my first everything and so did he, but after we're both gonna go our separate ways. He's just scared that he's gonna develop feelings for me again when we do it. I just want him to be happy with someone else because I know I don't deserve him. Is there a chance for us somehow?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2012): Darling, I had the same problem with my Ex. She broke it off, then tried to et back together with me after a week. Like an idiot I said yes but then began developing real feeling for her again.
Now, like your ex, I'm unbelieveably protective over my girlfriends, and I even asked her at one point to not talk to a guy whom she couldn't see was flirting with her but anyway.
If yôû really do love him, you should try and go your separate ways because when you do lose your virginities to one another then he might get feelings anyway, but really you just have to wait and let fate do its work, but if it doesn't work out, you have to move on :/
Moi xx
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