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26-29,
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writes:I have been talking to this guy my age for a couple of months now, he goes to a different school and I've never met him alone, only with a group of friends. We seemed to hit it off from the beginning, he texted me every day telling me how i was beautiful, he was such a gentleman and really knows how to treat a girl. The other day i went on skype to him, i wasn't looking my best because i'd just come back from hockey, but after a while of talking and laughing he just ended the conversation and went? I was quite upset, and since he hasnt been the same with me! I really want to see the old him? Im not sure what i've done, i tried asking him but he said i hadnt done anything, he promised me a month ago that he didnt speak to any other girl they way he speaks to me! but i think he does! hes very popular, and many girls speak to him, maybe he's just got bored of me? Please help! Have you been in the same situation? im sorry if im not very clear but i really like him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much Denise! This just gave me the extra boost i needed! I just need to stay open minded!:)
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (28 May 2012):
 It is very disappointing and upsetting not to know what happened to cause his sudden indifference.
I'm sure you didn't say or do anything, as he told you.
I suspect what happened is that seeing as he has a lot of other girls talking to him, that he's just "playing the field" and doesn't want to get serious with any of them - unfortunately that includes you.
All I can tell you is that at yours and his ages, boys are fickle. It's a time to explore getting to know members of the opposite sex, and to talk to, flirt and chat with numerous ones, without getting serious and placing a lot of hope in any one individual.
That's how it should be at this point in your lives. You're learning and growing, experimenting with boys (and they with girls) so that later on you'll be able to make a good "match" with someone, if you choose to.
Finally, maybe he will be more friendly again. If so, enjoy it, but don't put invest your heart or your hopes in it!
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