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Do I try with my best friend or go for a new guy?

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Question - (27 May 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 May 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

A while ago my best friend and I gave it a shot together. We were liking each other very much and we spent every second together, so we thought we could also try to make a relationship between us work...

But there are a few things I can't deal with:

He just can't get over his ex-girlfriend and last year he tried to get over her by fooling around big time. Almost any girl he knows, has been in his bed. I hate it. Now I know that was before I was in the picture, but it's still bothering me. But I decided that I would try to handle it, because I love him so much...

But now I've met this other guy and I kind of like him. But I only met him yesterday, so I don't know if it'd work out... He's trying really hard, he's texting me all the time and saying really sweet things. Now usually this wouldn't get me so much, but now that my best friend is trying to take some distance, I can't help but wondering if I should give up on the guy I just met because of him...

I just don't know what to do... Please help.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2012):

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Thank you very much! Ofcourse I knew that he was no good.. He had already heard me several times... You are so right. Thank you. I just needed to hear it from someone else to make it clear.

I went on a date with the 'new' guy yesterday and it was really fun. So I think this is exactly the right thing to do... :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2012):

it's simple the best things to do is follow your heart,because a heart never lie( which is between your new friend and best friend,) the hardest beating makes the call, don't forget to trust your insting.

Good Luck ;)

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