Thirty, single, no prospects, frequents hookers.

A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi, i have recently turned thirty, only to realise that i am growing old with no experience with women and dating game. i just feel shallow, empty and detached. i have been away from home when i was 15 and have lived for the last 15 years on my own. i cant speak a word with women or ask her out. i just cant do it, i would probably look too creeepy or desperate if i did it. i feel i am too ugly to speak to a beautiful women. Elsewise, i am hale and hearty, fit, five feet ten inches tall, go to the gym three times a week, go out and drink; i am PhD qualified, have got a well paid job in a company and just want to settle down. But i never had a women and i was a virgin until 27. i basically waited for something to happen until 27. Frustrated, on my 28th birthday, i hired an escort for my first sexual experience. Since then, i have been visiting prostitutes for sex, and still falling in love with women at work, but never been able to speak up, hopelessly shy and chronic loss of self-esteem. By now, after sleeping with over fifty prostitutes and not finding love, i feel like less than a dirt and decay; a pathetic loser. And have come to a point where i don't even fancy sex and have no desire for sex. Would just want the presence, warmth and touch of a female companionship. Any plan of action i could use to be like what most men are - have a lovely wife and two kids and live happily forever after? Would any women fancy me if i said i was unwanted until 27, lost my virginity at 28 with a hooker and slept with over fifty of them?

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