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writes:So my girlfriend told me that she wants a break because she can't be a girlfriend right now but she isn't breaking up with me but she tells me that i am the one. so i don't know what this means. does this mean we are broken up or just seperated or are we still together on the down low?
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reader, CANDY61 +, writes (18 March 2012):
Not to make you feel bad but that's the same thing my son's girlfriend told him, she wanted a break but come to find out she was dating two other guys, hope she's not doing that to you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 March 2012):
 I would have said: WTF? And asked what she meant.
Either she is your GF or she isn't, she can sit on the fence.
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (17 March 2012):
Ask her to elaborate, OP. We're not mind readers and women have a tendency to be vague.
From what I gathered though it means she is going through some mental hardships and therefore feels she can't devote herself fully to you. The break is supposed to give you both some air. Her adding that you're the one means she's hoping you'll stick around till she's gotten her act back together.
Still, in a real relationship you support each other in both the ups and downs, so her wanting to shut you out isn't good. Really talk to her about what's bothering her because you have a right to know where you stand and what she wants.
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reader, kittykhaos  +, writes (17 March 2012):
 i love this situation, read my list of questions over the past three years exactly the same. Now were getting married. Maybe she just has some stuff to sort out on her own time. Good luck!! xx
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (17 March 2012):
 She saw something that isn't quite right at this moment but she hopes that time would prove her wrong. What you should do is take it slower than she likes it to be. Chances are she would miss your qualities and reconsider.
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