A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am over thirty and until very recently I tagged myself as a gay. I had same sex fantasies from my puberty, and a couple of times I had sexual experience with guys as well. However I never could engage a long-term relationship with a man. In the last months I realised (and it confuses me now), that my interest in guys decreases. I thought that maybe its a problem with the partner (the muscles turn me on - or turned me on before and not all the guys I meet muscular). But I met a nice muscular guy in the last weeks, and when I saw him first naked and I could touch him - I did not feel anything....I just felt that he was nice, in a good shape, I liked his skin, muscles, it was impressive to see as he is exited, etc., but I could not go for sex. I was an observer and not involved. So what the hell is that? I am lost.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (18 March 2012):
 your not gay, you just appreciate a good looking person. take time out for yourself instead of thinking you have to be one or the other. I think you could be Bi, but have you been with a women yet?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (17 March 2012):
 You're gay but you have trouble relating to people.
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