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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:advice.... please, attraction and lust for my nabor and im married,i dont know what to do i turn into a horny school girl when i see him and when he call our phone asking for my husband i float on cloud 9....... sometimes when my husbands not in hearing range we flirt and he flirts hard such a turn on. i know its wrong but i cant stop. i dont know what to do i dont want to lose my marriage. but i fear its a little to late 4 days ago me and the nabor made out while my husband went to home depo.... and i dont want it to go no further... please what should i do
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reader, Deagan +, writes (18 March 2012):
 You cheated on your husband, had sex with the neighbor, without a condom no less! Your behavior is repulsive!
Don't you think your husband deserves the truth?
You said you don't want to ruin or lose the marriage, but you already did. If you continue cheating on your husband, he is going to find out. Vise versa, even if you stop cheating on him, he's bound to find out what you did anyway. So you need tell him the truth sooner rather than later.
You acted inappropriately, and you're saying you don't want it to go away further. So end it. Seriously end it. But now it's time to face the consequences of your actions.
Remember for next time, actions always have consequences.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2012): So u say u and your neighbour made out when your hb went to the depot? Meaning you had sex with him? Or what?
This is NOT behaviour that indicates that u still want to stay married. In fact this is behaviour of a good time cheating wife!
So before you destroy your hbs life I firmly suggest that you leave your hb because you will not change your cheating ways. If you wanted to remain faithful then you will.
LoveGirl
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (17 March 2012):
 Move.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni tried that, the day we made out..... i couldnt get him off my mind nor the same for him he would call asking for my husband but wanting to talk to me while my husband was at work yesturday he came over and we talked about how this is wrong and that it needed to stop... then it happened we had sex and we didnt use a condom and im worried about that to now, but the bad thing i still want him... im an adult and yet i put myself in a teen situation..
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (17 March 2012):
 If you are serious about not wanting this to go any further, then stop the flirting and never see the neighbor again. Easy, you see?
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