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26-29,
*arolines9711
writes:Okay so here is what's happening. My boyfriend got mad at my mom because she likes getting under our skin and doesn't want us together and posted a status on facebook about it and that set her off. Well I am 15 and he is 18 and by alabama law we can't see each other until I am at least 16 which is another 6 months away. She is really pissed and I was just told by his mother and him that I can not see him, date him, barely can talk to him for the next year to let everything die down. He is going to be a senior in high school next year and then he is off to college. But we both know for a fact that we love each other so much. I just want to know what I can do to stop crying and to get through this. I really am going to miss him and I really just want some advice on how to get through this. Thanks in advance.
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reader, mpumie  +, writes (23 June 2012):
 Don't worry. Ur inlove an love can make ppl do things that their not suppose to do. Ull be 16 in six months. If he really loves u too much he will wait. Respect yo parents an do what is right. If ur meant to be together u will be 2gether. Patience is virtue!
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (23 June 2012):
 Anonymous Male seems to have answered your questions beautifully. your BOYFRIEND is a dumbass.
Spend the next twelve months pondering what may have happened if he hadn't posted that facebook status. And then direct any blame for this in the right direction, your boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2012): "I really am going to miss him and I really just want some advice on how to get through this." Think about how your forced separation is all your genius boyfriend's doing because he was dumb enough to play right into your mother's hands by giving her all the evidence she needed (Facebook status) to blackmail his mother into forcing him to break up with you by threatening to call the cops on him. Now, not only is your mother actively working to keep you away from him, his mother is also actively working to keep you away from him and she has six months alone time with him to come up with exactly the right bribe to manipulate him into selling you out in order to stop your mother from ruining his life, which is what his mother knows your mother will do if that's what it takes to keep the two of you apart (and therefore stop you from getting yourself knocked up with his kid, the absolute last thing on earth she wants to happen)I'm sure his mother doesn't plan on letting her son's girlfriend ruin his life with an unplanned pregnancy that will derail his college education while further annoying your mother).Your mother hates your boyfriend, his mother hates your mother, and he is a dumbass. You don't stand a chance, and you will be surprised at how soon you'll be very very thankful you didn't because he is a loser.
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