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writes:alright, long question here: ok so about a year or so ago i had told this girl whom i had been really good friends with for about 2 years that i liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but she told me that she liked someone else which i accepted and so we decided to remain friends. Anyway we have gotten together a number times since then and had a really good time. However more recently I have asked her if she wanted to get together and hang out and the first time I asked she said sure and I gave her times when I was free but after a week and a half she hadn't responded. Anyway a few days after that, she sent me an FB message saying sorry that she missed hanging out which I accepted and said dont worry about it and asked if we could reschedule for the next week and she said that she was pretty busy but she said that she could make time, so once again I gave her times when I was free but again almost a week went buy without so much as a response, I even sent her a text 3 days before we were supposed to hang out asking her what time would be good for her and still no response. So my question is why all of a sudden has she started saying that she can hang out but when I ask her when she's free she doesn't reply? Is this just an isolated incident and am I overreacting? And I also dont want to ask her why she hasn't been responding because the last time I did that she got upset because she interpreted it as me being clingy and insecure when it was really just a simple question. I also want to make 1 thing clear, I don't expect her to put me ahead of anyone else in her life and I understand that she is really busy but I would rather her respond by saing " sorry I can't hang out today, but can we reschedule"? As opposed taking almost 2 weeks to respond Any help is appreciated. Thank you
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reader, Advice_man  +, writes (23 June 2012):
 I agree with person12345. If you want to meet with someone, even if you can't you will make efforts to meet as soon as possible. Not making the effort=not interested!! Have no doubt about that!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (22 June 2012):
 Bottom line, if someone wants to be with you, they will be. Sorry to tell you, but she's just not interested. If someone wants to go on a date, they will be jumping for joy at the chance and even if they're playing it cool, they will still schedule it as soon as they can.
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