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writes:My ex now broke up with me like 3 months ago and is now with someone else but still think about here every day and i'm not sure if is hould contact her because before when i emailed her she didn't reply and she delated me from facebook. and has taken a job in washington so i can't vist her. should i just consider her gone from my life forever? and not try to even reconcile the friendship? what can i do to not think about her cause i'm scared if i get in to another relationship all i'll do is think of her. what can i do to move on or win her back?
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reader, grymsoul +, writes (26 June 2012):
 Consider this a blessing dude. Not many of us have the luxury of having our ex disappear completely from our lives. I know it may not feeling like a gift, but think of her feeling the exact same way she does now (not loving you) and still seeing her everyday at work or school. That IS torture on the heart.You may think that if she was still in the picture then you could hopefully mend the relationship back into place, but how could you possibly bear seeing her with another guy? Thank the stars she decided to make it easier for you by moving away. I honestly wished my ex had moved when we broke up. It would have certainly made my healing process more managable. Let her go for good. She's made it clear she doesn't even want to see or hear of you again. Follow suite and leave her be. Nothing screams DESPERATION more than a guy who crawls behind of his ex with puppy dog eyes. It's a pathetic sight.Again, be thanfull she moved away. Now the healing will be much faster for you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 June 2012):
 She is gone forever and thankfully for you she's gone No Contact so it will eventually be easier for you...
just keep trying to live your life... go out with friends, meet new folks... be open to new experiences, try new things and the rest will eventually fall into place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2012): just move on..she deleted from fb..she didnt replay your emails... she moved to washington...it is clear.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (22 June 2012):
 I'm afraid she is gone forever, she has made it very clear she doesnt want to be friends and has moved away so that is the end of it. I know break-ups are hard and you still have feelings for her, but give yourself some time and eventually those feelings will fade.
3 months isnt very long at all, so just relax, take some time out from women in general and focus on yourself for a bit. Pick up some new hobbies, spend more time with friends and family, volunteer for a charity....do lots of worthwhile things with your time and you will soon find that you think about her less and less.
You cant force yourself not to think about her, and for the next month or so you probably will think about her a lot. But that will fade slowly, time is a great healer. Once you feel totally over your ex, then you can think about new relationships, and I promise you that you will fall in love again and she will be loads better than your ex - but for now dont even think about girls.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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