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female
age
30-35,
*wasti
writes:Hi friends. . .I am in a relationship with a guy. Before that, I was committed to my ex boyfriend. He loved me very much and was loyal. But I had only one problem with him. He was too busy in his buisness and didnt give much time to me. While my best friend, who was in love with me, spent almost the whole day with me. Gradually, I got attracted towards him and did a big mistake. I broke up with that guy and patched up with my best friend. But now when i am proceeding in this relationship, I feel that it was mere an attraction and my true love was my ex boyfriend. Also, my best friend, with whom I am in relation, is a big flirt. Now the situation is, my ex boyfriend is so much hurt that he has lost faith in love and talks to me just as a friend. But, I, desperately love him and want him back in my life. How could I manage to convince him? What should I do that he forgives me and returns in my life? Please help. . .
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reader, soon567  +, writes (23 June 2012):
oh go
sh, why all the drama. How about you take sometime and get to know yourself instead of running from guy to guy. The people has feelings and your playing games...wait. I see your age.
Before you do anything you need to end all relation and that includes your fwb as well. Find yourself then see what you want out of life, if you can include any of these guys then move forward with him. Choose one one though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2012): For a start you need to end the relationship with the other guy. Until you do that your ex has no reason to believe you. Then you need to be very honest and admit your made a mistake and were wrong in not telling him you wanted more of his time. Ultimately it will take alot of time for him to trust you again and he may not be able to forgive you for leaving him for another man but if you are honest and open and are prepared to be patient you may be able to start again.
Best of luck x
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