A
female
age
30-35,
*nique-angel
writes:I am going mad just over thinking this, it could be over thinking but my heart tells me its more. So i'm asking for you to decide whether this is friendship or flirting.Brief information being he is a lecturer but from the word go we hit it of, total respect for him and he helps me so much. Always keeps a watchful eye, once broke down crying he touched the side of my face and helped out.Recently We were both attending this meeting which he had organised. There were 30 other people there, all whom he knew t the end when i did speak to him. He guided me towards the side and a little closer to him by touchin my back then the side of my tummy. Yet when i emailed him the day later.Anyways, im in the middle of the room talking to other colleagues and he is at the start of the room placing his books down on the chair and he freezes stares and smilies. I glance but quickly carry on talking to the colleague . I look back he is still there, same position and staring, smiling when i just freeze and stared back he smiled more , Out of shyness i looked away.So what do you think?likes me?or not?Today, i called him regarding that reference i had emailed him about, which he had promised if i had helped him regarding these students. He basically said no, but he would not put the phone down, kept chatting and flirting. Then today was my result day, i stated i knew and he teased saying you might not have it.When I did find out this email happened:Me: Mr .... thanks for making me paranoid for past 3hours lol!!! results just came up, i did get a 2.1!!! "haha" ¬¬ lol yayyyy :D:Dtake care Him: Dear Ms ...It was actually less than 3 hours, AND WELL DONE!Just think how long that placement at .... was? Best Wisheshis initials.Would love some feedback please thank youThe placement he mentions was basically the first time he looked out for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2012): Hey,
It is hard to tell whether he is flirting. At any rate, because he is your lecturer he is not allowed to have contact with you in that way.Even if he wants you, he can't or else he faces being fired or reprimanded. From the things he has said he sounds like he is being pretty professional and mentor-like, so it is possible that you are reading into his actions and looks too much. On the other hand, touching students is not usual, and touching is usually a gesture that is pretty flirty. Wish I could help you more!
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