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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: My ex and i have been having a rough situation. We was together for five months. We broke up n then get back together. We had an amazin relationship. But he has anger inside because of my past. I really do love him even though we bearly broke up again nd got in a big fight he said he dont love me anymore bt then he says he does. And i know he does i can feel it and i can see it in hes eyes. I guess he just needs a brake. He told me he was done, but i can feel its not true, he hasnt.change hes facebook password, he knows he still cares for me. I stoped txtn him bearly today, but im dying to text him:( i really dont know what to do. Should i wait for him to calm down or should i txt him? Its hard to just let him go i love him n he does too. I know hes feeling the same as me. I dream of him n everything. I really wanna try to work it out again even though i have pushed him away. What should i do?
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reader, Ciar +, writes (29 February 2012):
Besides telling us how much you love him and how much you think he still loves you you haven't given us much information to go on. How did you drive him away exactly? By having a past or was there something else?
Do I think you should chase him until he finally caves in and comes back to you? Absolutely not.
He's decided that your past (something that belongs to you and has nothing to do with him) is his business and hijack both of your lives with it. It's something that can be overcome, but frankly I don't have much faith in most men's determination to overcome it. For that reason I say let him go. Give yourself time to grieve and free yourself for someone more suitable.
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